Dead Wait

I'm a 35-year-old guy who's been texting with this girl. She got out of a seven-month relationship two months ago and is still kind of emotional about it. We'll make plans to go out, but she always cancels at the last minute, claiming that she's "still a mess" and adding, "Hope you understand!" Should I just keep texting with her and see where things lead?

--Limbo

Think about the guys women get stuck on -- those they can't get to text them back, not those who put out lighted signs visible fro...