Having It Small

I met somebody online, and we have a real connection, but he is agoraphobic and hasn't really left his bedroom for 10 years. I have a job and a life, so it's hard to keep up with his barrage of messages. However, it seems unfair to bail on dating him just because he has this condition. What causes agoraphobia? Is it treatable?

--Wondering

It can be really romantic to spend the entire weekend in bed with a man -- but only when you don't have to spend every other day of the month there, too.

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