How did the hostility start?
I’ve had enemies and still do. I’m sorry about it, but that’s how it is. How enmity begins I don’t know; every generalisation seems arbitrary. I have a hard time crediting the theory that enemies are indispensable to the way we define ourselves, that they reinforce our identity through a sort of permanent war. I’ve never felt that need: enemies have never given me anything but anxiety, and I would gladly go without them.
On the other hand, there’s no doubt that the history of the human race is a history of enmities, and one can’t eliminate the problem with a shrug. Enmities that can be ascribed to a particular motive frighten but don’t excite me: the possession of a spring, of oil wells, of a region – those end in murder, war, slaughter and inspire horror.
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Published on September 28, 2018 23:00