5 Things I’ve Learned About Writing

As much I enjoy writing, I never thought I’d be a published author in my thirties.
So to see my name on two published books, four eBooks, and another published book on the way is humbling. This is not a humble brag—I’m just seriously floored and surprised by the way that God has led my wife and I to this point. All glory be to God!
In my twenties I had a wonderful plan for my life.
I literally wrote out a plan until my wife and I were in our eighties. Several years later, am I ever glad that this wonderful plan didn’t come to pass because God’s ways are always higher, deeper, and better than ours. We unfortunately had to learn that the hard way post-Korea, which is another story for another time. You can read more about it here.
God’s ways are always higher, deeper, and better than ours.
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So to celebrate the one year anniversary of my book, No Silver Bullets, being on the bookshelves, I wanted to share 5 things I’ve learned about writing.
If God has placed a dream on your heart to write, I hope that this will be an encouragement to you. And by the way, I’m also going to be giving away 5 signed copies of No Silver Bullets at the end of this article, so be sure to enter!
1. Don’t write to go viral. Just write.
There’s no formula for going viral—even the best marketers haven’t cracked the nut. Sure, your article or book needs to be timely, it needs to hit a felt need, and it needs to be written well, but there’s that intangible “share-ability” nature to everything that goes viral that’s hard to figure out. In fact, a pursuit for the next viral article can cause you to chase rabbits and trends, rather than write on topics that you’re personally passionate about and have something to say on.
A pursuit for the next viral article can cause you to chase rabbits and trends.
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So stop obsessing over SEO hacks and keywords for your title, and instead focus on honing your writing skills. I’m not telling you to ignore SEO and keywords, since they do help the “share-ability” of your content. I’m just saying that it may not be the best way to spend your time as a writer. What’s most important is practice, since the only way to get better at writing is by writing.
What’s most important is practice, since the only way to get better at writing is by writing.
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2. Knowing God was J.I. Packer’s 9th book.
We love overnight success stories. When we see people pop, or their book go on the New York Times bestseller list, we get jealous—especially if we’ve never heard of them before. But when you dig deeper, most of these overnight success stories aren’t overnight success stories. J.K. Rowling’s original Harry Potter pitch was rejected twelve times, Beatrix Potter’s The Tale of Peter Rabbit was self-published, Madeleine L’Engles’ A Wrinkle in Time was rejected 26 times, and on and on it goes.
Don’t get caught up in hacks to get famous or to make your book pop. Like Dory in Finding Nemo, “Just keep swimming, just keep swimming, just keep swimming.”
Don’t get caught up in hacks to get famous or to make your book pop.
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The theologian and professor J.I. Packer is probably best known for his book Knowing God. It’s been a classic for over 40 years, one of the top 50 books that have shaped evangelicals, received a platinum book award from the Evangelical Christian Publishing Association, and has sold over one million copies. When Knowing God popped, I’m sure most people thought that Packer was an overnight success—unbeknownst to them, this was his ninth book!
Don’t give up. Just keep writing, just keep writing, just keep writing.
3. Know your “why.”
Why are you writing? Who are you writing to? And ultimately, who are you trying to serve through your writing? While the kosher thing is to say that you’re serving others, there are many writers who are basically serving themselves by standing on the backs of others. The reason they want a platform is so that they can stand on others, rather than serve others.
So never forget your “why.”
Do you want a platform to stand on others? Or serve others?
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4. You’re going to want to give up. Don’t!
Ups and downs are a natural part of the writing process. There are going to be days where everything clicks and your ideas flow, and then there will be every other day. More often than not, you will get writer’s block. You will want to give up. And you will question the effectiveness of it all. However, if God has given you a dream to write, don’t give up.
Keep putting your hours in, writing for the right reasons, and seek to serve rather than be served.
5. Your idea has probably been written on, but your version is going to be different.
If there’s a book idea that you feel ready to work on, one of the steps in putting a proposal together is to compare it with other similar books out there.
If you can’t find other books like yours, you haven’t looked hard enough.
There’s no way your idea is going to be completely original. Now, the way that you package it, write on it, and present it will be unique because only you’ve lived your own story. However, there are going to be other similar books out there. So instead of ignoring them, read them! Study them, learn from them, and write your version rooted in your story.
There’s no way your idea is going to be completely original.
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If by chance you honestly can’t find anyone who’s written on a remotely similar topic as you, then you’re either a genius or you’re trying to write on something that no one cares about.
Conclusion
Above all else, cultivate your own voice. No one has lived the same life as you, so while it’s important to learn from others, you need to write in a way that’s unique to you. And honestly, the only way to learn how to do that is by writing.
Just keep writing, just keep writing, just keep writing.
Giveaway instructions:
As I mentioned earlier, my book, No Silver Bullets: Five Small Shifts that will Transform Your Ministry has been out for over a year now! To celebrate the impact that it’s had and is continuing to have in churches and ministries globally, I wanted to give away 5 signed copies of my book. You can enter the giveaway by clicking the button below.