How to Separate Spin From Deception and Lies

Everybody spins—to get a date, a mate, a job. Spinning simply means putting your best foot forward by telling your story of what happened with the best possible interpretation of the facts and the situation.

Deception happens when you alter or omit facts with the intent to change another’s perspective on a situation. Lying, . . . well, . . . we all know the definition of a lie versus an honest mistake.

People can make honest mistakes with no intent to deceive. Reasons vary: Rushing. Short...