Can't Find a Mentor?

I remember sending about a hundred or so emails in my search for a mentor, and then I looked in the mirror and said to myself, "Wait… maybe I'm the reason no one wanted to mentor me?"

I know, it's REALLY hard to hear things when someone point's it back to you and taking 100% responsibility for why things are the way they are is hard to swallow (when things aren't good).

However, I also feel as if we all need to step up and take some personal responsibility for where we are at in our own lives....