Voices From Under The Bridge

If you are talking with someone with internal permission to succeed, when you ask about a situation and suggest brainstorming, they will come up with potential solutions.  If the negative voices in their heads drown out the positive, when you ask the same thing, they will offer reasons why it won’t work.    Doesn’t matter what the arena is: losing weight, selling stories, saving money, finding romance, whatever.  Until they can generate ideas and possibilities, you are best served to assume t...