Fade Diet

I got ghosted -- dumped by a guy who just disappeared on me, no explanation -- after three months of lovey-dovey dating. Clearly, he isn't a great person, yet I'm unable to stop thinking about him and wondering why he left. How do I accept that it's over so I can start dating again?

--Plagued

It's hard on the ego to learn why somebody's leaving you, but it beats needing a Ouija board.

It's the mystery that's causing the problem. Typically, when rotten things happen to us, our feel-bad emotio...