The postscript to the last month or so
I could get annoyed, bitter and angry about this, but I actually feel sorry for SB. I genuinely liked him, and there was raw material there I could have done something with in terms of giving him a happier outlook. I am a nice yet tough lady who gets it. He won’t find another one.
I am sorry that I did not get to say goodbye, if you want to know the story, trawl back over the last month or so for a fairly sanitised version.
SB is a poor soul and is likely to have a fairly overworked and twisted life. You can choose to make things more or less complicated, and he likes things more complicated and less charming than I do.
The contractor has been very unpleasant and intrusive, and as I did not choose for them to have this information, I have found their input less than useful.
The manager directly in charge of you, however, is a decent person and is not directly responsible for what has just happened. He is just giving his boy the benefit of the doubt. The boys network is not dead, and insufficient members of staff have highlighted SB as being an issue according to him. You could choose to make his life more of a bitch, but I did not.
It is now unlikely that he will get the help he needs, and so I suggest that you all avoid interacting with him as much as possible, as even on a good day he is likely to want to use you to gain some imaginary advantage that only he understands. It is neither your fault nor his. I was unable to resolve the situation and if I cannot help, it is likely that nobody can as I am an unusually thrawn and helpful person.
Several interested parties may want to get in touch, in which case my number is available. You can also email on the address at the bottom of the pages, but this may take me longer to answer.
Again, I am sorry I was unable to explain what happened, but I tried as hard as I could to get through to SB and he still kept attacking me via the contractor, so there was nothing I could apparently do about it beyond pretending to be something I’m not.
My heart goes out to a female member of staff in particular. She may get a better hearing if she wants it.
Good luck everyone, look out for me on media generally as I will now be devoting myself to Boris on my way back to the overarching Wolfe project. Life is for helping others where you can.
I’ll miss you,
Hope Scott and Qasim work out. So cute!
Ina
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