How to Tell if a Guy Likes You – 15 Tell-Tale Signals

I encourage my readers to contact me by providing my email in each of my books. Because of that, I get dozens of emails every day and at least a one of those emails will be from a woman who asks me how to tell if a guy likes you. It’s like a big mystery to them, trying to figure out the “guy signs he likes you.”

The truth is that men give out gigantic clues, but you are looking in all the wrong places! You’re looking for “female clues” to tell you if a guy likes you. This is your first and biggest mistake!

Guys throw out guy clues and maybe the clues aren’t that gigantic, but they are gigantic in male terms. Read more about how Men Love in Different Ways.

You’re looking for things like whether or not he gives you flowers or if he brings you chocolate on your birthday. You consider it a big milestone when he invites you to meet his family. All you want is for him to sing you a song and tell you how he feels from that guitar he plays so well!

None of that is going to happen. You won’t see most of the milestones or signs you’re looking for. I’ll be the first to admit, men are clueless about these milestones. Now, let me tell you what signals a guy will send if he likes you.

How to Tell if a Guy Likes You Signal #1: He’s a Nervous Wreck

Women fall for the guy who delivers lines smoothly, is polished and says all the right things. While this guy may seem to be Mr. Right, this is part of the definition of what I call a wet kitten, user or player.

The quality guy who will stick around is not polished or smooth. He’s nervous as heck-just like you!

Like you, he fears rejection! In this Verily article, Guys Tell us What Keeps Them From Asking You Out, learn more reasons why great guys are afraid to approach.

You can tell he likes you if he stumbles a bit in the beginning. Too many women reject a man who is nervous for the guy who is smooth, thanks to chick flicks! Are You Dating a Loser?

How to Tell if a Guy Likes You Signal #2: His Car is Clean

If a man likes a woman, he prepares for her!

His kitchen is clean, his car is washed and vacuumed and his shirt is freshly pressed. He has identified where you’re going for dinner and he’s driven by, just to be sure he won’t get lost.

When I was younger, I would practice pronouncing the names of different wines before a date. I was clueless about wine. I’m the guy who pronounced the “s” in “Chablis.” [image error]