The Customer Is Always Frightened

I'm a 36-year-old single woman. I've noticed that the more I like a guy the more nervous I get and the louder, more irreverent, and more inappropriate I become. I'm actually a really sweet girl. How can I stop doing this?

--Unintentionally Brash

Your cocktail party conversation shouldn't translate to "I mean, come on...do I really seem like a danger to myself and society?!"

To calm down so you can talk like a person instead of a scary person, it helps to understand -- as I explain in my new...