If You Make a Mess of Things in College it Will Be Your Mess Not Mine

Dear Son,

You have a few more years living under my roof full-time until you go to college and are out on your own. I know this will always be home in some way to you– after all, you’ve lived here your entire life and you know I will always welcome you with open arms.

And lately I know I’ve been trying to prepare you for something that may seem harsh, but I think it’s for the best: When you move out, go off to college and find yourself, you are on your own. I will always be here for you, yes,...