Take a nap, would you?

If a person complains about some lack in their life, I don’t say “poor baby”.  I offer a suggestion.   If they wanted “poor baby” they need to SAY they just want emotional comfort.  If they don’t say that, and get upset if I offer a suggestion, they are being childish: they want me to read their mind (“I don’t want fixing, I want comfort”) without being able to read mine (“here is a problem.  Let me see what can be done.”)

 

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