NOTE TO SELF...

I've never been one for New Year's resolutions, but in keeping with the theme this month, I'll share a handout I offer at some of my workshops. I call it ADVICE TO MYSELF. These are things I always try to bear in mind along the writing road, not just with the turn of the calendar, but whenever I'm writing, facing the slog, feeling stuck, or just contemplating the nature of the work itself. 
Here's wishing you all a happy, productive writing year in 2018! The more you work on it, the better it tends to get (usually).There are no shortcuts.  (But there are good days.)“I find the harder I work, the luckier I get.”  – UnknownI’m not doing myself any favors by broadcasting what I don’t like about my own work.Stop worrying about whether it’s character driven, plot driven, or what. Just write it.I am who I am. (aka, I’m not Edith Wharton. I watched too much t.v. as a kid. Deal with it.)Yes, most of my ideas probably exist elsewhere.  So what?There are (arguably) no bad ideas. It’s all about execution.“The best way to bore someone is by leaving nothing out.” – VoltaireKill your darlings. “Never wish more than you work.”  - Rita Mae BrownStillness, silence, staring into space—it’s all part of the work“We must understand and accept that we lose half of our audience the moment we open our mouths.”  - Kate DiCamilloWrite to your ideal reader.  And write to please yourself first.Trust your instincts. For real.“My most important piece of advice to all you would-be writers: when you write, try to leave out all the parts readers skip.”  - Elmore LeonardWhen in doubt, ask yourself: What are the questions I should be asking myself right now?Follow your curiosity, not your passion. – paraphrased from Elizabeth Gilbert“Everything should be made as simple as possible, but not simpler.” – Albert EinsteinTell the truth. Don’t save your ideas for later. There will always be more.eedback is a gift. That means you can do what you want with it. (But keep an open mind.)Dreck is part of the process. So is falling out of love with your idea. Keep going anyway.You are a writer if you want to be one.  Think of yourself as a writer.  Call yourself as a writer.  Don’t wait to get published for this to happen.Tell a good story first and worry about the moral later.  No one wants to read a moral.I may get better at this as I go along, but that doesn’t mean it gets easier.