Weed Better Break Up Now

I'm a 28-year-old gay guy. I like to travel and go out and do stuff on the weekends. My boyfriend prefers to smoke pot and uhh...time travel on the couch. He's a good person, and I love him, but he's unwilling to cut back on his pot smoking. Friends tell me to dump him, but we've been together for three years, and bailing now would mean throwing that time away.

--Frustrated

The guy isn't without ambition. He tries really hard every day to give the cat a contact high.

There's a point when love...