One Day at a Time (With Planning!)



Resolutions are easier to keep with specificity. I know that. But I am trying something different this year because my last couple years the plan has petered out relatively quickly.



I did do a couple things right last year. I adopted an eating plan that is totally sustainable, NOT a diet, and only gained 4 pounds over the course of a full year. Normally I have either been losing or gaining, and with this plan my entire range this year was +/- 7 pounds from my starting place. But always returned to that center. It involved mixed methods (which the statistician in me loves) so I have 3 days of no carbs in a week, 2 days of “light” (one super light, one 25% less than normal) and two days of flexibility (one “normal” and one 25% EXTRA). The idea is that it keeps the body from panicking and hoarding calories.





This year I am just adding some objectivity. I am going to track calories and “define normal” calorie wise... just a reality check that I hope may be enough to push me into loss range.



But there are several things that I've not been attending to that I need to get going on. I feel like I've been in crisis management for a few years now, just doing the next thing that needs doing because it has reached critical and failing to do the self care I know I need.



Physically I need: more sleep, regular stretching, regular strengthening, a more coherent exercise plan.



I need to write.



I need to organize.



I need to be there for my kids and husband.



It's a lot.



So I am actually only making ONE resolution. I take a bath every night as part of back pain management. This allows me to EASILY spend five minutes planning the next day's specific goals. That way I get the specificity, but also the flexibility to adjust for what is and is not working. So my resolution is to make a mini plan every night.



Anybody else?
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Published on January 01, 2018 09:49
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message 1: by Heather (new)

Heather I love your plan! I have enjoyed reading other people's goals. I love to see the search for better. It inspires me to do better. I may even incorporate some of the excellent goals I've seen into my days. But my goal this year, the ONE I am going to focus on is to pray first. When something comes up--a struggle or a question, I want to search for spiritual guidance and grounding before I query Google or my network of friends or panic or do anything else. I have a problem with starting to do things before I think or consider, and I'm hopeful this will help. I also want to seek that spiritual grounding at the first of each day--before all else, instead of as a last resort.


message 2: by Judy (new)

Judy I like it. Reasonable, doable, and should show immediate and helpful results. The bathtub is where I do my best thinking.


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