What are prerequisites of healthy relationships?
Whether you marry or not, only one thing works and that is true passionate love.
Marriage is often a safeguard for women rights and hence a bound and hence a spoiler. Marriages let us take other person for granted.
In earlier days social norms were not liberal enough to allow two people to live together. But now a days it’s perfectly acceptable for two people to live together as long as they want. Marriage is a glorified myth tied to our minds.
Only love can free you and make people stick with you. We all have this remarkable innate ability to judge who love’s us and who doesn’t.Thus no need of a social clause.
Also in earlier times women were not financially and socially equipped to face life. In today’s generation, this is not the case. Equal opportunities span every where for every one.Companionship has replaced the image of provider and protector.Keeping in view of today’s mind set, I boldly predict end of marriage (clause) as we know it in one decade or less.
Supreme courts around the world are recognizing ‘live in’ as equal to marriage and children out of these relationships have entitlement to property and every thing. My child doesn’t need a certificate of marriage to inherit any thing from me. Right ?
Same goes for any one I love or care. A legal agreement in itself a spoiler. It says “Baby I love you but still we need a social agreement to prove our loyalty towards each other for whole life. Our love is now sealed by act of our constitution!
Love is freedom. Freedom is love. We are and shall not be bonded by any clauses whatsoever (not even moral obligation).
You are free to leave any time so am I. Let us see now how strong is chemical imbalance of our minds (aka love). If it stays even then, I call it love, else just lust, attachment,need or want or whatever.
Love is strong enough bonding by itself.
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