Is is okay to get attracted to other girls while you are in committed relationship?

Developing feelings as ‘Minor Crush’… It’s perfectly normal. We are humans and we are ‘hardwired’ to love. But developing feelings such as ‘missing’ them, stalking other guys,messaging them,attracting (luring) them,comparing therm to your partner and wishing them to be in your life…a strict no.

I wrote this long before that even if you love your house, you still appreciate other houses on the street. Appreciation is different from wanting.

Some people are poly amorous[1]. They can maintain and love many partners equally.I don’t know about you.You must test your feelings and your gut feel.

One more explanation could be that you don’t love your partner fully and find him imperfect.Love is too complex emotion to be defined.

Footnotes

[1] Polyamory