LADY SUSAN: PATRIARCHY ON THE DECLINE—FOR DECADES (Part 2)

Some distinct trends have emerged from Kaitlin’s research into women-led relationships (see previous post). The following represents her interviews with 130 women, all professionals, age 30-59:
Women have been cuckolding their husbands for some time, going back to the ’50s, a time when women were assumed to be accepting of their husband’s dominance over them. Much to the contrary, Kaitlin’s research shows women not only exerted control at home but satisfied their sexual appetites outside the home.

And these trends are accelerating.




Women have eclipsed men in earnings and in positions of authority in society. They now have the money and power to do as they wish, making an impact in society and, more strikingly, at home. An increasing number of men are finding themselves in domestic roles that occupy all or a considerable amount of their time. And they more and more of them are not simply stay-at-home males but rather strictly managed domestics or maids. There is a difference between the two as will be discussed later.
So, in Kaitlin’s findings, what are some of the intriguing trends that have emerged in regard to cuckolding (i.e., where she is sexually free and he is not)?
·        Increasing numbers of women, dissatisfied with their sex lives, have cuckolded their husbands, many times with his knowledge but not with his approval.·        Twenty-five percent of women have thought about dating again.·        Poor sexual performance on the part of the male is a major motivation for cuckolding.·        A sense of excitement and adventure motivates powerful women to cuckold.·        Feeling under-appreciated motivates powerful women to cuckold.·        Alpha males make women feel attractive and desirable.
·        “Girls’ Night Out” isn’t just for the ladies; increasingly alpha males are involved.·        When women earn in excess of $75,000 per year, the likelihood of their cuckolding their husband greatly increases.·        Women who travel on business are 50 percent more likely to cuckold their husbands.

·        Women in positions of power tend to be seen as “attractive” or “very attractive” by alpha males. Such males increasingly seek “dating” opportunities with powerful women.



·        A significant percentage of alpha males also view older women as “very attractive.”·        A woman’s body type is often of minimal concern to alpha males.·        Powerful women are inviting their mothers and aunts to live with them. This is not only a benefit for the both the older and young women, but also a way to keep tabs on stay-at-home males.·        More women are seeking prenuptial agreements to protect their assets.·        More women are seeking prenuptial agreements to guarantee access to the assets of their husbands.


·        Despite their earning, on average, significantly more than their husbands, more and more women control the finances and social activities.·        Many “domestic males” report that their financial resources are “very limited.”·        Many wives spend an average of two hours a week coaching, lecturing, and disciplining their husbands.

—Lady Susan