How To Tell a Child About a Sexual Assault for 08/18/2017

Dear Family Coach: I was sexually assaulted in college. I never told anyone in my family. It's taken years, but I am not in pain anymore. As my daughter begins her freshman year of high school, I am feeling the urge to tell her my story. I want her to know what can happen to girls, but I also don't want to frighten her. When and how should I tell her? — Afraid

Dear Afraid: It must have been difficult to go through an assault without sharing it with your family. I'm glad you have been able to find a path to feeling less pain. It is perfectly appropriate to tell your daughter your story. It can make the lessons of safety more relevant.

Updated: Fri Aug 18, 2017