Another Interview With the Techdomme®

How did you get started in the findom, femdom, and techdom[sic]?

I was working as a technical project manager in the games industry when I had first heard about Findom as a fetish. I was already active in my local BDSM community as a a domme, and people were starting to ask to play with me consistently, and offering me money to top them. After hearing about Findom I decided to pursue it and see how much money I could make. I ended up making so much money. After being in Findom for a while I realized how many men wanted their computers and devices controlled as an aspect to the BDSM relationship. With my high tech skills from my previous career it was easy for me to figure out exactly how to do it. I coined (and trademarked) the word Techdomme®, built my own app to control Android phones, and the rest has been history. To be clear I am THE Techdomme®, other dommes engage in high tech domination, but techdomme® is a realm that belongs to me only.

When did you decide to make what you do a career?

 I wouldn't call it a "career" but it is my sole source of income. Basically as soon as I started making more than $10,000/month I realized that it actually didn't make sense for me to have a regular job and go to work anymore, because I was making so much more money staying at home and dominating people and their computers.

How do you come up with your clip ideas?

Largely just from my experiences with men. Women experience all kinds of projected objectification from men in all arenas of their lives. Constant sexual harassment, entitlement for time, energy or attention from men has lead to a real frustration and resentment toward the opposite sex. That combined with some of the conversations and sessions I've had with my subs is usually what fuels my video creation.

 

What's your ultimate career goal?

I don't have career goals. I like making money. I will continue to own my intellectual property and make money from it. If anything my only goal is to NOT lose control of the intellectual property I have created, and have hired a cadre of qualified lawyers to ensure that I own my trademarks, copyrights, and can take legal recourse against people who try to steal what I have created.  

Can you describe the feeling you get when you break a man into being your sub?

 Cha-ching. 

Favorite type of clip to shoot and why.

Ripoff clips, because I just say a few words about how stupid you are, and then I turn off the camera. Those usually sell for over $100+ each. 

Was there a point where you felt like giving up in your dom career? If so why?

Nope. I've had nothing but positive experiences as a domme. 

What do you think people are attracted to you? (Physically, personality, both) explain.

Obviously I have a very unique look, I'm 6 feet tall, covered in tattoos, and I have giant boobs. However I do find that the large majority of my subs are attracted to my intellect and cunning ability to get inside their heads and manipulate them. 

Biggest challenge for you in your work?

Maintaining control of my IP. If you search on Twitter for #techdomme you can already see how popular my ideas are, and how people are ripping off my trademark. It's upsetting because I would have to litigate against Twitter to get this to stop, but litigation is really expensive, even for someone with a lot of resources. Regardless of how wealthy I am personally, Twitter has much more resources at their disposal and it's in their interest to not deal with people's IP claims. 

Biggest piece of advice for someone who wants to serve a dom as yourself?

Send money first, send an email second.