In Others’ Words: The Multiplication of Applause

It’s the most natural thing in the world to applaud when someone does something good, isn’t it?

Well, yes … and no.

I love to attend Broadway shows. I don’t hesitate to start the applause after a moving duet or rousing dance performance. I’ve clapped my way through more school productions than I can count, not to mention sports competitions, and even some favorite movies. And yes, I’m talking about applauding in a theater, not at home. Although I’ve done that, too.

But I’ll confess that there have been times when I’ve hesitated to applaud another’s success, especially when the other person’s success threatens mine … or so I thought.

As a writer, I’ve achieved more things then I’ve ever hoped for … but there have been times when things I’ve wanted have eluded me. Awards. Recognition. Words of praise from someone I respect. And while those things passed me by, I’ve watched someone else — sometimes a close friend — do something good and get the very things I’d hoped for. Awards. Recognition. Words of praise.

My first reaction? Well, a few years back, my initial response wasn’t to applaud. Sometimes I sulked (in the privacy of my home) or sometimes I wondered, “Why not me?” Instead of seeing — and celebrating — someone else’s success, I focused on my lack.

But now I embrace the truth of Samuel Goldwyn’s “applause, applause” philosophy. When another writer does something good like finaling in a contest or winning an award or landing a contract, I applaud them. I hope in doing so, I add to their celebration. And yes, I’m happier too. The limelight shifts off my “what ifs” and onto their accomplishments — right where it should be. 

In Others’ Words: How do you celebrate others’ success?

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