Comment on My Favorite Heuristic for Evaluating Relationships: The Antifragile Person by disqus_RGoM3LhmM4

the problem is that for some people criticizing others is the sole goal in life and they derive some sick pleasure out of it, mostly to compensate for their own insecurities and flaws..
So the intention of the criticizing person is also very important, actually most important: does he want to help you by pointing at things you’re doing wrong or he just wants to hurt you to pleasure himself?
that’s why for me personally the rule is only criticize people you know well and care about, do not tel...