Are you “worth it”?

At the end of this essay, I’m going to give you the secret to having anyone you want. No kidding.   But you have to read the whole thing for it to make sense…so don’t skip ahead.

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On another thread, Anasa Troutman proposed a “new rule” for relationships: “you get to interview the last two people they dated.”

 

Someone mentioned that T and I had done that, and when they tagged me, it brought the post to my attention.

 

I answered that we’d not QUITE done that, but close enough.   The first...