Re-encountering Constance Wilde

The highlight of my Bank Holiday weekend was a one-woman show in the Brighton Festival entitled 'Mrs Oscar Wilde', written and performed by talented actress (and fellow Goodreads Author!) Lexi Wolfe It consists of a series of short vignettes in which Constance Wilde writes letters to her brother Otho Lloyd. The research is meticulous, based on real-life correspondence and writing, and it was riveting to see Constance transform before our eyes from star-stuck young girl to newly fledged 'celebrity wife and mother' to passionate, confident political activist and feminist; and then age and diminish as increasing disillusionment with her neglectful spouse and concerns about his dangerous lifestyle take hold. The final scene was particularly moving as Constance, ill and dying in exile, hounded by her husband's disgrace and torn by concern for her boys, wonders what her legacy will be - she hopes to be remembered for her literary and political work, and for her championing of the burgeoning women's movement, but fears she will only ever be remembered as 'Mrs Oscar Wilde'.
It was exactly this sidelined legacy that I was trying to challenge in The Coward Does It With A Kiss - published back in 1990 when there was less biographical information about Constance publicly available, and also consisting of a series of (fictional) letters, written in this case by Constance to Oscar. It's so nice to see that the balance is now being redressed, both by Lexi Wolfe and also of course by Franny Moyles in her 2012 biography Constance: The Tragic and Scandalous Life of Mrs. Oscar Wilde (which I'm ashamed to say I have yet to read - I shall remedy the situation over the summer, and post a review right here on Goodreads ...)
I do love to see a neglected, invisible character given a voice, and looking back I can see that writing 'The Coward' gave me the confidence to tackle Anne de Bourgh in Before Elizabeth - the story of Anne de Bourgh - a fictional character in this case of course, but a voiceless, sidelined one in Pride and Prejudice
I'm hoping to republish 'The Coward' in the near future, but in the meantime there seem to be a few second-hand copies knocking around if anyone wants to give it a go! And do try and catch 'Mrs Oscar Wilde' if you get the chance to see a performance - it's off to Leeds next I believe!
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Published on May 30, 2017 11:25
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message 1: by Charlie (new)

Charlie Raven That play sounds rivetting. Thanks for the review.
There certainly is a whole lot more to Constance Wilde than just being a wife. She should be seen in the context of the burgeoning women's rights movement and the emergence of the female viewpoint in art, politics and society.
I was interested to come across a quote from 'Constance: The Tragic and Scandalous Life of Mrs. Oscar Wilde' in which Franny Moyle talks about the Dorothy Restaurant in Oxford Street, which shut in 1895. Places for women to eat alone were almost unheard of in those days - you had to be accompanied by a male to be considered respectable.
'If you had walked down Oxford Street at lunchtime on Friday 21 June 1889, proceeding from Oxford Circus to Marble Arch under the almost continual canopy of coloured awnings that once graced that thoroughfare, about half-way down you would have found a cluster of folk blocking the pavement, vying to press their noses up against the windows of no. 448. This group, drawn from hoi polloi working in central London, were enjoying the spectacle of a great crowd of celebrated women milling about inside, many of whom were smoking. This activity, normally the preserve of men, was causing particular consternation. Constance Wilde, in her signature Gainsborough hat and wearing a full-skirted velvet highwayman's coat, was in their midst. She, like a whole host of other notable ladies, was attending the opening of a new Dorothy's Restaurant. '
Not only do I wish I could have witnessed that, but I pine for a full-skirted highwayman's coat too...


message 2: by Rohase (new)

Rohase Piercy Charlie wrote: "That play sounds rivetting. Thanks for the review.
There certainly is a whole lot more to Constance Wilde than just being a wife. She should be seen in the context of the burgeoning women's rights..."


Me too! I've ordered Franny Moyle's book from my local library and am looking forward to reading it at last!


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