How to make meaningful connection? really?

I read a lot of books, attended a lot of seminars on
“Building a connection”
“Buliding meaningful connections”

from NLP, to mirroring, to human psychology, to positive psychology, to attraction laws to a lot of things.

They worked with others, they didn’t work with others.

Then I stumbled upon the advice

Be Yourself

which baffled me because until today I can’t answer the question

“who is myself that I should be?”

Then I was confronted by a dear person who told me

“OPEN YOUR HEART”

I thought I...