Marriage: Before you commit

Back in the day, after a heated discussion about relationships, a friend asked if I expected the heavens to open and drop my husband-to-be on my door step.  She insisted that I was not trying hard enough to find a mate.  She thought that my cool demeanor and choice dates, basically amounted to faith without works.  She was convinced that I should be visiting more social clubs and events to gain more opportunities to meet Mr. Right.She was mistaken. I was busy living my life to the fullest, wa...