A Dominating Talker and Unflattering Outfits for 02/10/2017

Dear Family Coach: I have two wonderful but very different children. One is extremely talkative and dominates all conversations. The other is quiet and never gets a word in. How can I manage family time so both boys have a chance to express themselves equally? — Managing Parents

Dear Parents: There is no rule that says all children in a family must have equal time to talk. Some children are more introverted and prefer to listen and observe. They might feel quite uncomfortable being put on the spot to make conversation at the dinner table. Other kids feel they must express every thought that enters their mind. These children often have a harder time listening. It is unwise to try to stifle the talker while pressing the quiet one to make conversation. However, that doesn't mean you can't make some room for everyone.

Updated: Fri Feb 10, 2017