Getting lucky

It’s just been New years eve and many of you have been out at different parties, dinners and get-togethers. Some of you may have had the aim “to get lucky” and some of you may feel that you did.

It really disturbs me to hear people say that they are going out, hoping to get lucky. It disturbs me even more when I hear someone in a longterm relationship hoping they will get lucky tonight.

Saying that being sexually intimate with somebody is a stroke of luck, seems to me to both devalue and ov...