On Staying Attached To The WRONG Person [TIT]

You stay attached to the wrong people when you wait for them to change. 
They won’t change for you, they can onlychange for themselves, but waiting for someone to change inorder to become the person you think they are or the personyou think they could be is only a waste of time.
You stay attached to the wrong person when you think there is no one out there better for you. When you don’tbelieve that you will be able to find someone you can lovejust as much who will be able to  give you what you needwithout breaking your heart.
You stay attached to the wrong person when you limit yourself to one place.  The world is huge, but often, we limitourselves to the city we live in or our circle of friends andthat’s how we end up exaggerating our feelings towardssomeone because they’re the best we could find in this cityor this group, but there are a lot of people elsewhere whowould be so much better for you. So don’t settle for someonebecause of their geographical proximity.
You stay attached to the wrong person when you try to convince yourself that they’re right for you.  You hold on to threads of hope that you two belong together, that you bothneed each other, that you are the perfect match. Theseassumptions are not backed by actions or logical reasons.They’re all fantasies or maybe your heart tricking you intobelieving they’re the one because you desperately want toprove yourself right and prove that all this is not just afigment of your imagination.
You stay attached to the wrong person when you continue to stalk them on social media.  When you keep followingtheir updates and their news, when you keep looking at theirpictures and seeing how much fun they’re having withoutyou. Block them if you must, do anything that stops youfrom staying addicted to them when they’re no longer partof your life.
You stay attached to the wrong person when you lie to yourself about what you want. When you tell yourself thatyou don’t want more, that you’re okay with making all themoves, that you’re okay with minimal effort and shallowconversations. When you lie to yourself that you don’t wantdates and butterflies and nights full of romance. When yousettle for hours when you want forever.You stay attached to the wrong person when they change
everything you knew about love and you still accept it.
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