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Dudes Spankin’ Dudes Episode 4 Visual Companion

So how deep in the red zone is your love of spanking? In this episode we talk about three classifications (though these are not set and stone and your mood and dude chemistry may effect where you fit in any point in time) of spanking interest.

Spanking as foreplay:

If the entire point of spanking is as a warm-up for sex, then you’re in this category. We sometimes see brief spankings in some non-spanking gay porn to present a fantasy of sexual domination. The GIF above is of a video showing a short spanking and belting prior to gay sex where the top takes on a domineering role over the submissive bottom.

Spanking as kink:

Here the spanking and pain are an important part of sexual satisfaction, but it’s part of a larger picture of sexual interests. Guys with spanking as a kink genuinely like spanking play and pain, but often combine it with other types of BDSM play and conventional sex.

Spanking as a fetish:

And here’s where Soupgoblin and I both fall on the spanking spectrum. Spanking is our primary expression of our sexual interests. A good hard spanking essentially has the same sense of satisfaction for us as sex does for other people. Doesn’t mean we’re never into sex or that we’re asexual, but it is way much less important to us than spanking play.

So where do you fit on the spanking spectrum?