Disappointment

I have a deep rooted fear of disappointing people. Can anyone reading this suggest to me ways of overcoming this, please?

The reason that I ask is that I am disappointing people left right and centre at the moment and this is leaving me very unhappy.

I can see three broad options:

Remain true to me and hence continue to disappoint people Remove myself from situations where I am a disappointment Change myself so that I am what other people want me to be.

None of them seems to offer much in t...