I lied; I have to answer this one.

YES. I'm not sure about the final destination, but you need ground under your feet and so much distance between your history and your present sooner rather than later. That particular destination is home to a friend of mine, and being poor-prudent me, I might suggest something less pricey, but that's a money question, and I'm not good at those.

What is needed is sun and light and bright and away from expectations and familiar and mindsets that are weighty and old: go somewhere where you are no...