STAGE PRESENCE, CROWD CONTROL AND TIPPING

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But it wasn't<i> always</i> that way. Over the years, on what I call my "Work/ Study Program", I learned to master the art of crowd control...<i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">especially</i> in venues where tipping was encouraged. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">As a baby dancer, I avidly observed professionals working. I studied the way they handled crowds, watched their interactions with the audience, the way they got the crowd all fired up, how they  accepted tips and the crowd control tactic they employed for handling rowdy customers. I noticed that the dancers <i>never</i>  broke  from their stage persona, even when in a small venue where they personally could relate to the audience, all up-close and personal.</span><br /><br /><b>  </b><b><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"></span><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif";">T</span>he most  <i>important</i>  thing I noticed was that direct eye contact is paramount! </span></b><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Dancers always appreciate a lively, demonstrative crowd, and<i> it’s our job</i> to get the audience riled up and festive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>So don’t be afraid to make direct eye contact with your audience members- it’s the surest way to make them feel connected to you- <i>and to get them to tip you!</i>  </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;"> As for rousing a reticent audience, by using eye contact gestures alone, you can have the entire crowd clapping along to the music, or get them to be silent during a quiet part of your set.  If you want to break the ice with a tough crowd, the best way to do it is to call a child up to dance with you- they’ll almost always jump at the chance, it’s totally cute and of course, people love a good photo op!  If there are no kids around, select a pretty, vivacious-looking woman, and pretty soon her friends will join in... cause it’s a great social media moment!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>If someone you’ve gotten up to dance overstays their welcome, just “present” them to the crowd, and get them all to applaud- <i>everyone</i> will understand the idea that their <i>dancin’ machine</i>friend is now taking a bow, and should return to their seat.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;"> As for tipping- at belly dance shows, it's  a popular practice that stems from hundreds-if not thousands of years of tradition.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Both the audience and the dancer enjoy tipping; the performer makes supplemental income, but tipping also allows for audiences to interact with the dancer and show appreciation for her skills..and once again, if you want to get tipped, eye contact is crucial!<table cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="float: right; margin-left: 1em; text-align: right;"><tbody><tr><td style="text-align: center;"><a href="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-sI-pIjdbPJ..." imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://4.bp.blogspot.com/-sI-pIjdbPJ..." width="253" /></a></td></tr><tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">Photo: Kat Bushman</td></tr></tbody></table></span><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;"></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>As far as tipping goes, most clubs and restaurants have a system in place where an employee, such as the manager or a waiter, will pick up the dancer’s tips and bring them to her dressing room after the show. If tips fall from your costume and a customer notices, they’ll sometimes let you know.  In this case, I either assure them the waiter will get it for me or ask if they wouldn’t mind retrieving it. </span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Inevitably, you’ll encounter some show off  that’ll offer you a tip… <i>held in his teeth.</i>  I’ve found that the best way to handle this is with humor and pantomime.  I’ll either pat the guy on the head as though he was a dog with a bone in his mouth, or gaze directly at another member of his party, point at the offender and pull a comical face that silently asks  “What’s <i>he</i> doing?”  Usually, someone will make him stop- <i>or they’ll grab the money and tip you properly! </i></span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Once in a while, things can get a little out of hand, especially if the venue serves alcohol. If <span style="mso-bidi-font-style: italic;">an audience member </span>does anything during your show that pushes your personal boundaries, interferes with your comfort-zone, or personal safety, or is just being disruptive or seems intoxicated, you have two choices.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>You can enlist the service of the nearest waiter or simply remove yourself from the situation right away and report it to the management. This type of behavior is always frowned upon- there <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">are </i>definitely certain circumstances where the customer is not “always right</span><span style="font-family: "ｍｓ 明朝"; font-size: 12.0pt;"></span><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">!</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;"> Many audiences are unsure of tipping protocol, and don't want to offend the dancer or do something impolite. There are a few discreet ways to let them know that tipping is OK. Often, dancers will <i>seed</i> their belts with hidden a bill or two (which can be prudently revealed mid-set) giving the audience the idea that tipping is acceptable. </span><span style="font-size: 12.0pt;">Another way to do this is to have the servers help you out before you go on by courteously asking patrons if anyone needs change to tip the dancer.</span><br /><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Whenever you get tipped, make sure to thank the person who tipped you, either verbally or with a nod of thanks, and big smile...once again looking the audience member directly in the eye!</span><br /><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">  </span><br /><i><span style="font-family: "" "times" "" , "serif"; font-size: 12.0pt;">Tipping is a way for the audience to tell you how much your performance meant to them.  It’s our job as dancers to transport the audience, and by receiving their tips graciously, you can also take satisfaction in knowing that you have done your job… and done it well.</span></i><br />#<br /><br /><br /><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>My workshop, <i style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">I’m With The Brand: Marketing And Promotion For Dancers</i> is now available as an online class…</span></b><br /><br /><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt;">Purchase here- and watch as many times as you like!</span></b><br /><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt;"><a href="http://www.princessfarhana.com/shop.h... /><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt;"><br /></span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt;">  </span></b><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><a href="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-TytGRJx6sx..." imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="310" src="https://3.bp.blogspot.com/-TytGRJx6sx..." width="320" /></a></b></div><br /><br /><b><span style="font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16.0pt;">Come say hi to me on the Inter-Webs !</span></b><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: black; font-family: "times new roman"; font-size: 16.0pt;"><br /><a href="http://www.princessfarhana.com/"... /><a href="http://www.facebook.com/pleasant.gehm... /><a href="http://www.facebook.com/princess.farh... /><a href="http://www.twitter.com/PrincessFarhan... /><a href="http://www.instagram.com/princessofho... /><br /><br /><br /><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div><div class="MsoNormal"><br /></div>