LJ Messages

I never even knew I had LJ messages, let alone read them, but this app shows how many you have, so I took a look. First thing I found was some pompous pinhead telling me s/he "wasn't going to give me a lecture about guns" (gee, big of you) but was unfriending me because I "write too much" and the format of my journal makes it less interesting somehow. And since I never knew you existed, I'm supposed to care about this ... why, exactly? Going back to not reading them now, thanks so much.