Shine the Light

When I was in college, I used to go to a bookstore near my apartment that I loved. All over the store, small little cards would stick out of certain books with little comments from the people who worked there, "Try this out!" or "A great summer read!" and it would be labeled with the name of the employee who provided the suggestion. They were, after all, suggestions, perhaps more than reviews. One of the guys who worked there, Ryan, and I seemed to have the same taste in books. He introduced me to books like The Shipping News and The Golden Compass. One thing I loved about Ryan was that he would never say anything bad about a book. If someone came in and asked "Did you read this? Did you like it?" holding up a copy of something, he would say something like "You know, I didn't connect to that one mostly because I'm not a crime thriller guy," and then direct them towards Sarah, the crime thriller girl who worked on weekends. When I asked him about it one time, he said, "I think my job as a bookseller is to just shine the light, you know?" Amen, Ryan.

Recently, someone on Goodreads wrote to ask me why all my books have four or five star reviews. "Yeesh," she asked, "Do you like everything you read?" Simple answer. No. I don't like everything I read. But I feel like this site, for me, is about suggestions. It's about sticking that little piece of paper with my name in it above a book to say, "I liked this one - check it out" so that maybe people can start to say "Oh hey, she likes Richard Russo as much as I do, I wonder what else she's reading?"

This world is a busy, messy place. I get that, I do. It's full of snark. People get kudos for being mean disguised as honesty or straight shooting. That's become very popular. On TV. Online. People get attention for it. And that's their choice. I believe very much in presenting myself in a certain way online. Again, my choice. But as far as suggestions for books - I prefer to shine the light.
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Published on May 27, 2011 09:59 Tags: being-positive, books, reviews
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message 1: by Cindy (new)

Cindy Hudson Thanks for this thoughtful post Kim. I really feel the same way about posting reviews for books. Everyone does have different tastes in what they like to read, and I'd rather highlight what I think is worth looking at than focus on the negatives of something I don't connect with. Also, I can usually tell by the positive things reviewers say about a book as to whether or not it's something I'll like.

And thanks too, for your thoughtful reviews.


message 2: by Kim (new)

Kim Thanks, Cindy! Having been on the receiving end of some pretty nasty reviews, this particular sentiment is dear to my heart :)
But mostly I just think it's so important to realize that not every book is for every person and I really want to spend my time sharing the ones I connect to. Thanks for shining the light the way you do!


message 3: by Stephanie (new)

Stephanie Hello, I am writing in hopes that you might consider letting me have a copy of "Instructions For a Broken Heart"
to review for my blog, and possibly host a giveaway. I'd love it also if you'd like to post
a guest post or do an interview if it's not asking too much or if you aren't too busy.

Thanks for considering. I look forward to hearing from you.

~Stephanie Christmann
soklad82@hotmail.com
http://fortheluvofsanity.blogspot.com


message 4: by Tanya (new)

Tanya I love this, Kim. And I love Cindy's point, above, that she can usually tell if she would like a book by *what* positive things someone says about it.

It saddens me that snark and dark get taken as cool and "real." Negativity, I think, is easy. Shining the light requires courage: saying you love something is putting yourself out there and daring other people to call you silly or disingenuous or undiscerning.

Thanks for making the world such much more wonderful, Kim.


message 5: by Kim (new)

Kim Thanks, Tanya! I do like what Cindy said there, too. And I think we should be an army of light-shiners!
And Stephanie - I would love to get you a book and be a guest on your blog. Thanks for asking! I'm going to forward your request to my publicist but could you please send your address to kim@kimculbertson.com.
Thanks, all. :)


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