I Almost Divorced My Husband, But I Went On Strike Instead

Disclaimer: I want to do alot of things, but I don't have much time to accommodate everything. The article below is open for interpretation, and it's a result of my attempt at writing a multi purpose article. The article below is written because:

I'm participating in a writing challenge in my writing circle that begins with: Write a a coherent article that contains:Queen of the  Nile, Duracell Bunny, battery, Genie, pollution, Disney's movie, Medieval slave.
I need to write a book review that I've been procrastinating from writing.
My desire to write up a Labour's Day dedication to all overworked ladies who are wife and mother, but don't quite have the time to do it, so yes, this is a Labour's Day dedication.

I don't know about you ladies out there, but for me, married life is not exactly a bed of roses. If a friend ask me what married life is like, I'd scornfully say it's like working without the benefit of medical leave or any other advantages that's applicable to other employees all around the world.'Vacations' or a 'medical leave' is extremely hard to obtained for us wives. Well, at least to me, it is difficult.

Being married sometimes would also mean that you can be subjected to verbal and emotional harassment from your in laws, and yet, you don't quite the rights whatsoever to drag your in laws to court because more often than not, such action shall undermine your marriage because your other half gets all emotional over it and consequently, the marriage will turn sour.

Ask me how it is like to be a mother… I'd say: Quite like a Medieval slave in a feudal Lord's household, cuz there's endless chores to be done, tonnes of responsibility being placed on the shoulder, absolutely no escape, no bloody rest even you're halfway dead and not to mention you shall also be the subject of society's scrutiny if you failed to educate your children to be up to par with their peers.

Ask me what's the advantage of being married… perhaps I'd say free, legal sex, though not necessarily safe all the time. That is an advantage, of course, if you have a libido like a hormonal teenager and your other half is actually good in bed and bent on pleasing you first before pleasing and satiating his own carnal needs.

If you don't quite fancy sex or the man is the kind who likes to please himself without taking your needs into consideration, then such legal advantage is of course, not an advantage and it's just another chore and responsibility in your already long list.

Of course, I'm not saying that marriage and motherhood will be the same with everyone. Some women managed to land themselves some precious catch where their husband spoil them like the Queen of The Nile. They are the Queen of the world and need not lift a finger to even eat.

I only feel that way because at times, I feel that I am not appreciated and being taken for granted. I feel that way because people expect me to do everything and refuse to pick after themselves and see me like some sort of automatic machine that will do everything for them whenever, whatever they want to be done.

They also think that I am not entitle for some good rest. Perhaps, they are under the illusion that I am a Genie. Whatever they want, they'll just wish it and I shall make it appear. Want a drink? No problem, just state the wish to me and I'll make it appear. Want something to eat, no problem too, I'll make it appear in a jiffy. Want money? Want massage? Sure, no problem. I can make it appear too and they do not even need to say the magic word 'please' or 'thank you'.

Geez, sometimes, I think I'm a Genie. I do wonder if I look blue… like that Genie in Disney's movie Aladdin. I must be a higher class Genie… cuz apparently, the wishes people can ask of me is not just limited to 3, and they need not thank me for it because they probably thinks Genies like me won't get mad and leave them cuz I'm under some binding contract that will not allow me to leave.

But of course… higher class Genie like me need not to live in an old lamp. I guess I'm luckier than any other Genie cuz I actually live in a house. Thank God for small mercies. I hate to think that I'd be confined in a lamp throughout my tenor as a Genie. I'm terribly claustrophobic.

Sometimes, I tend to think I look like some noise pollution technician too, cuz every time there's noise in the house, I'd be expected to fix it and make the noise go away.

You see, I got extremely sick and tired of that; to be seen like some sort of furniture that blends in the house perfectly. I wanted to be treated like human again, so whenever I feel that it is too much, I'd just go on strike and stop doing whatever I am expected to do. No cooking, no cleaning, no babysitting, no whatsoever.

Enough is enough, and one enough as for what it's worth, even an employee have their rights and access to annual leave or medical leave. All they need to do is just apply it and they will get it. I should be entitled to some sort of relief too. I ought to be given the rights to say 'NO' when things does not sit well with me or when I am exhausted or when I'm ill.And I definitely have to be given rights to have a 'ME' time without being disturbed.

After so many years, I have come to realize that I'm not a toy bunny that's running on Duracell battery that can go on and on without stopping. I'm just a bunny that's running on a re-chargeable battery, and when the battery is depleted, I need to be recharged so that I can work efficiently again, and to be appreciated, I need to make people see the importance of the role that I'm playing in the house.

I suppose, some ladies out there are feeling the same; things are too much to handle at times but just dare not voice it out or rant it out for the fear of being judged. It's all right. I am sure you would know when enough is enough and put a stop to it and set things straight again and make people see you as a human once more instead of just a wish granting Genie or the inexhaustible Duracel Bunny.

Perhaps, you're overworked and under-appreciated too, but do not know how to stop being overworked and be appreciated once again. Perhaps, some of you are tempted for a divorce. But trust me, sometimes, divorce is not the solution and will not make such problems go away. In fact, sometimes, divorce will only make things worst and brings up more issue.

All you need to do is just say no whenever things get too much for you and make people see your worth. Don't know how to do that? Perhaps, this book can help.

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Title: I Almost Divorced My Husband But I Went On Strike Instead

Publisher: Cedar Fort

Imprint: Bonneville Books

Pub Date:8 June 2011

ISBN:9781599555171

I Almost Divorced My Husband But I Went On Strike Instead by Sherri Mills. In my opinion, this is a must have book for every wife and mother who overworked and under-appreciated. It teaches you how to turn that monster of a kid and that snot of a husband back into an angel they used to be in the most effective and subtle way. I received a digital ARC of this book from the publisher Cedar Fort via Netgalley and I must say, this is definitely a self-help treasure. A 5 star book. If you're an overworked and under-appreciated wife and mum, do yourself a favour and get a copy of this book.

Cleffairy: Happy Labour's Day.

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