Nose Tweaking, the Ultimate Insult

Though difficult to imagine today, there was a time when grabbing someone's nose and giving it a twist was an insult so egregious it was likely to end in one of the parties' death. For centuries in both America and Europe, violation of a man's honor demanded retribution by duel, and though by the middle of the 19th century duels were theoretically illegal in all states, they were prevalent among the elite class in the South up until the Civil War.
Evidently the nose was a particularly sensitive spot for insult, probably because in those more modest times it was the part of the man always public and exposed and tended to be associated with a man's assertion, will and confidence. Present day psychologically-inclined historians even speculate that the nose was a stand-in for—how should we put this delicately?—another item of protuberant male anatomy synonymous with masculinity. So to insult the nose was to insult the man deeply to the core.
As we see in Beaufort 1849 nose tweaking is how Johnny finally goads Jasper into a duel:
"No," Johnny said, shaking off his host and turning back Jasper. "You'll fight me, Wainwright, or you're a coward." There was a collective intake of air at this, followed by several gasps as Johnny accentuated his defaming words by reaching out his hand to tweak his adversary's nose. Johnny might have succeeded if Jasper hadn't grabbed him hard by the wrist, or perhaps he did succeed for the briefest of instants, it was impossible for anyone besides the two involved to know for sure. But now the course was set. The insult was too grave to be ignored by even the most lenient of standards, and the standards for gentlemen in Beaufort, South Carolina were not lenient.

I wonder which customs we feel strongly about today will cause people 150 years from now to scratch their heads and say, "You've got to be kidding!"
Published on April 13, 2011 10:21
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