You catch more flies with honey and more wasps with...?

So, some people know that I've recently installed--by which I mean lolcatz installed--a hummingbird feeder in the backyard. I've had a love-hate relationship with hummingbird feeders for much of my life. We got one when I was growing up, and then my ex-husband and I had one briefly as well. No hummingbirds ever came to either. You can imagine our astonishment when, while on a trip to Arizona, my ex and I saw hummingbirds everywhere. I swear, it was like those things were going to land on your ou