Getting Stalked and Asked for Sex
I try to maintain a very low profile to the extent I don’t wear anything obvious or attention grabbing. I blend in with crowds, live a regular homely life with womanly interests like shopping in DIY shops. Of course, getting stalked is part of life since I entered competitive dancing when I was 12 years old. I probably had lost count over the years of how many men had asked for my telephone number, and once I past the legal age; to sleep with them.
Being a public figure is… being contacted all the time mostly for sex. Yea, that’s right. It’s just sex at the end of the day. Recreational procreation they call it. I don’t know what gives the impression that dancers, actors or artists are more sexual than those in other less lime lightly occupations, but all humans do need sex as well as food. Thank you for finding me physically attractive enough to want to sleep with me, but we barely met… how the hell is that possible?!
I have no idea how people have one night stands. Seriously, I have no clue. That’s something I can’t do. My brain just isn’t wired to sleep with a stranger that I barely talked to for five minutes. Or to go up to their room within a date. I know that this maybe super common in this day and era of instant sex-gratification but… where the hell is the connection of intimacy?!
Is intimacy long gone or we simply lost the ability to connect with one another on an emotional-spiritual-mental level once our primal sexual drives over rules all those higher level cognitive functions? Are we de-evolving as a species instead of evolving?
I still get emails on how much it costs for me to sleep with them. I don’t advertise any of that, it’s people’s brains going on a imaginary sensory overload that the presume that women who are publicly available are open to paid sex. It’s really… not the case! Unless they are obviously stating that’s what they offer! I am sure there are places to find escorts other than soliciting public figures for that. With one million views on YouTube, you could only imagine the number of weird requests I get. I had to turn on an auto responder.
The point of this message is, if you really want to sleep with someone, get to know the person first. If not sleeping around with countless of people is not gonna fix your addiction or desire. With a deep connection with someone, you could elevate your desires to focus on depth instead of what’s superficial on the surface.
I am with my Prince and we are happily bonded with one another in every way – emotional, mental, physical and spiritual. It has helped to ground me and propel my dreams to greater heights than I was lost, alone and miserable. With the right partner, anything in the world is possible.
To find love and bond on a soul level requires no monetary transaction or one night stands. It requires two people to commit and make it work, that outweighs any short term gratification out there – it will all become meaningless. There is no need to “pick up” thousands of girls to find the one. Neither is our fantasized versions of our idols are the one for us. The one for us is the person who accepts us for who we are.
That’s secret ingredient to amazing sex – acceptance.
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