When You Don’t Know
How do you know what questions to ask when you don’t know you don’t know that there’s even a question?

Any Questions?
This past weekend, I was the Featured Speaker at the UNM Writer’s Conference. I had a wonderful time, and especially enjoyed having the opportunity to answer questions. But the experience also left me with the above question.
Let me back up and explain…
Although the UNM Writer’s Conference was a “general” event – embracing writers of non-fiction, as well as of fiction in many different genres – there were a fair number of people there who were specifically interested in writing SF. These people were serious enough about their writing that they had paid the relatively steep admission price. (To be fair to the conference, this did include a nice box lunch, as well as coffee and snacks, and the possibility to sign up for a pitch session with an agent or an editor.) Despite this, many of those I spoke with didn’t appear to know much about the SF/F field, nor did they appear to have done their basic pre-conference homework.
I am still feeling a little bad about giving a young man a hard time when he didn’t recognize my name. Why? Well, I certainly don’t expect everyone to know who I am. Far from it! I’m not a household name, even in the SF/F field. However, I was the Featured Speaker for the conference. If I had been paying to attend such an event, I would have researched every listed writer (in this case, there were only about six). Then, especially for those who were writing in my chosen genre, I would have read at least one of their books.
(As those of you who read my Friday Fragments know already, I sought out a novel by Margaret Coel, the conference’s Guest of Honor, just because I felt I would get more out of contact with her if I understood something about her work.)
If you’re reading this, Nathan, I apologize. I hope that the questions I did answer for you showed that I took you seriously. And I hope that your pitch session went brilliantly.
However, this young gentleman was not the only would-be SF/F writer who showed a lack of awareness of the SF/F field. Of the seven or eight people I spoke with, only two knew about Bubonicon, our highly-regarded local SF convention. Given how important the SF/F convention is – not only to the field in general, but for authors as a means of learning about the field, having an opportunity to interact with readers, and, maybe, even to network – this really surprised me.
Back in the Dark Ages, when I started writing, I wasn’t a convention goer. However, I knew that such conventions existed. I even knew that they involved activities other than “serious” writing discussions. This was in the Days Before the Internet, so I couldn’t easily research everyone who was expected to attend. However, I did look up the listed guests, so that if I met any of them, I could speak intelligently. My research also helped me to choose what panels I wanted to attend. And, no, I wasn’t the grey-haired old wolf you all know. I was twenty-six.
That brings me back to my original question: How do you know what questions to ask when you don’t know you don’t know that there’s even a question?
Well, here’s one option available to aspiring writers these days. If you “follow” or otherwise interact with a writer, editor, or publisher via Social Media, and he or she uses a term you’re not familiar with, look it up!
A writer might say “I’m Guest of Honor at Such and Suchcon this weekend.” If, instead of letting this odd reference slide by, you looked up Such and Suchcon, you’d then find out that this was an SF/F convention. If you read the listed activities, you might see terms you don’t know, like “cosplay,” or “steampunk,” or “fan programming.” By the time you’d looked those up, you’d have come to realize how vast and varied the field you are interested in has become.
Your next step should be to see if there is a similar event in your area. As an experiment, I just Googled “SF con + NM.” This gave me not only Bubonicon, but several other related conventions and a Wikipedia listing of SF conventions in general.
Honestly, this is the sort of research you would be doing if you were searching for a job in a specific area, and that’s what writing (and selling ) SF/F is. Looking for a job.
All right, I’m curious, how would you go about figuring out what questions to ask when you don’t know you don’t know that there’s even a question?

