On the Fence

At 4:00 in the morning, I’m jolted from a sound sleep by a long, eerie howl—and on high alert by the following one. They sound as if they’re coming from the top of the staircase just inside my bedroom door. It was either a deranged person, or a crazed animal.

I’ve wondered what I’d do if an intruder broke into my house. Well, I found out. I turned on the light. I was afraid, but whatever was in my room, I had to know what was coming my way.

But there was nothing there. The howls must have come from the deck off my bedroom. Whatever it was, it was big, and in my mind, getting bigger. I didn’t open the door to the outside (I’m not stupid), but did lift the blinds. Nothing was there either. The morning before, I’d watched a fox sitting on my back fence for fifteen minutes, and I knew bobcats and mountain lions had been spotted in the surrounding neighborhood a few blocks away. It could have been a coyote, a bobcat, or maybe even a mountain lion. I puzzled how a mountain lion could get on my small second-story deck in the first place, and more to the point, why? My rational mind raced for a rational explanation.

Completely unnerved, I left the light on, slid back into bed, and calmed down by reading, checking my email, and logging onto Facebook. An hour or so later, I was able to go back to sleep for a while.

I’d been working on final editing of the family memoir I finished twelve years ago. A monthly open mic event that I co-host was that evening, and I read two short pieces from the memoir, both about my mother. Sometimes I’m hesitant about reading this stuff aloud. It’s one thing to have others read it when I’m not in the room, it’s another to make eye contact and read it aloud to an audience. What follows was a portion of a piece that I read.

Betty, Claudia, Carleen

  Mid 1946 • Sonora, California

[image error]Squatting on the front stoop in the low afternoon sun, Betty, all of six, and Claudia, just four, sat wondering what kind of trouble they could get into when their plans were cut short. An eerie howling, like a trapped animal with its foot caught in a snare, floated through the front screen door from the top of the staircase above them.

“What is that?” They whispered, giggling and poking each other.  “Owoooooooooooo! Owoooooooooooo!” They imitated the sound as if they were wolves calling to one another in the woods.  “Who is that crazy person?” Betty wondered aloud to Claudia.

Carleen, who was twelve, overheard them. “Shut up,” she hissed through the screen door. “It isn’t funny, it’s Mom.”

Something happened to Mom, something snapped. That was the first time my mother tried to kill herself. They took her away for a while to get better, but she never did, not really.

When I got to the part in the story about the eerie howls coming from the top of the stairs, my hair stood on end. I’d picked this piece to read before the howling in my room the night before. I made my way back to my seat, in wonderment of what was too parallel to be mere co-incidence. Synchronistic events occur quite often when I work on the book, and I know there are no accidents.

This morning I spoke to my niece, Julie. Her response was, “That was no animal. You had an otherworldly experience. Maybe your mother hasn’t passed over yet.”

“My rational mind prefers not to go there,” I told her, “though she’s shown up before, so I’m not surprised she might be here again.” I didn’t mention it could have also been my sister, her mother.

What if it was my mother in my bedroom two nights ago, and if so, what was she trying to tell me? Then again, what are the chances of a large wild animal stalking me on my upper deck in the middle of a downtown Sonoma? Either of those are just as likely as confronting a maniacal intruder who was not in my room. Any of them are possible, none of them make sense, and all are disconcerting.  However, the two screams were the most disconcerting.

Where am I with all this? Much like that red-tailed fox visiting in my backyard last week, I’m on the fence.

This morning I spoke to my neighbor and asked if she’d heard anything at 4:00 a.m. on Friday. You know what she said? “I did! I shot out of bed like a cannon and flew down the stairs thinking that whatever it was, it was after my cat. When I went out back, there was nothing there.”

Then I told her my story and asked, “What do you think?”

She said, “I don’t know. All I know is it was one of the most unearthly howls I’ve ever heard, and it was coming from the direction of right between our houses. I’m on the fence with you. I can’t say it was an animal, and I can’t say it wasn’t. But whatever it was, it was loud, it was scary, and it was close by.”