The Cruel Truth and Tell …

We all have disagreements and even arguments from time to time with friends and with those we love. There are age-old friends who are known to periodically curse and cuss each other and use bad words they ought not use. But still, it happens, indeed, it happens, despite each caring deeply for their momentary opponent in the fight.

Yes, we do hurt the ones we love.

But, if someone who is angry with you consistently engages in deliberate and calculated cruelty, while attempting to completely destroy your spirit and soul as a result of their passing anger — then you need to completely remove that person from your life, for the sake of your heart, your health, and your ongoing quest for contentment and well-being.

There are boundaries, there are limits, and there are certain lines of behavior which, once crossed, there is no avenue for a return.

In such cases, you should forgive, you should always forgive, for your own well-being and for the sake of all concerned and everyone involved. This does not mean you should always forget. To save your own soul, sometimes, some things should never be forgotten.

Even the best of friends and lovers find themselves at odds on occasion, and sometimes let their temper get the best of them.

But, even then, true friends and those who truly love you will always fight fair.

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RT

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