[Essence Advice Column] Dear Abiola, How Do I Get It Popping After Menopause? + One Man’s Advice

“Our moms had Dear Abby and we have Dear Abiola…” Dear Abiola, I’m 61 years old and everyone really thinks I’m between 35 and 40. I know it might sound like I am reaching but every woman in my family is proof that good black don’t crack. My nickname is “Hot Mama.” The problem is...