What Can You Give Away?
This past week, I received a very positive review for my children’s book “Treasure Hunt.” Toward the end of the review, the writer said, “This is definitely an author we hope to see more from in the future.” As I read her comment, I pondered the possibility of writing more children’s books. My first adult novel is appearing on Kindle Scout this weekend, and I have been debating my next project as a writer. Perhaps another children’s book is a valid possibility. Her comment also helped affirm something that I already knew – writing is my “giveaway.”
The “giveaway” is something I read about a few months ago. It originated from the Native Americans of the High Plains and is our reason for being here, our purpose for this life. We all want to contribute something to this world. Our “giveaway” is how we do that. It helps us find meaning. All things in nature know their “giveaway.” Trees make oxygen, distill water, provide habitats for animals, make sugars and foods, and self-replicate. Honey bees pollinate plants and trees, produce beeswax, construct honeycombs, and make honey. It’s what the trees and the bees came here to do. Everything in nature has a “giveaway,” and we are no different.
As young children, we are drawn to certain things. Perhaps we love to dance or listen to music. Maybe we enjoy painting or building things. The Native people of the High Plains paid close attention to their children’s interests. They knew those interests were closely tied to a child’s life purpose. The entire tribe supported their children as they grew, helping them listen and trust their intuition. They wanted their children to discover their “giveaways” for themselves. Once their children discerned their purpose, they could make a difference in the world.
The “giveaway” is important because it helps form the basis of who we are. It is the very reason we are here. Some of us know from a very young age what our purpose is, while others struggle for years to figure it out. As we get older, some of us may even ask, “What have I done with my life? Have I even made a difference?” We are all looking for meaning. Sometimes our “giveaway” is our profession. But, that is not always the case. When we listen and reflect upon our passions for this life, the discovery of our “giveaway” begins.
This week, think about the things that bring you the most joy. Is it cooking, healing, designing, or reading? Whatever it is, reflect upon it and its meaning for you. Your purpose for this life doesn’t have to be grand. You don’t have to cure cancer (although that’s an important purpose for someone out there). It can be as simple as sketching caricatures on the street or inviting people into your home. As long as it brings you joy and uses your talents, then it is your “giveaway.” It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks of it. It’s yours and only yours. And once you begin living your “giveaway,” you will see the world differently. You will find meaning. After you’ve discovered your purpose, support others as they search for their “giveaway.” Be their “tribe” that helps them listen to their intuition.
With a “giveaway” the possibilities are endless – maybe I will “give away” another children’s book after all.
