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August 24, 2016
Letting Go Of Breakups
Have you ever had a relationship that you simply can’t forget?
Do you long for someone who is emotionally or physically unavailable to you?
Are you infatuated with an individual who doesn’t even know that you exist?
No matter how hard you try, this one person occupies your every single thought. Constantly ‘living in the past,’ you are stuck in a time-warp and unable to move forward with your life.
SET YOURSELF FREE WITH THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS
Do you love someone who doesn’t love you?
Are you hanging on to a relationship that ended a long time ago?
Are you struggling to cope with feelings of rejection?
Do you want to make your ex pay for what they did to you?
Is the need for revenge eating you up inside?
Do you feel bitter when you watch other couples being happy together?
IF SO, THEN YOU NEED TO DISCOVER THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS!
If you are poisoning your life by holding onto feelings of resentment and rejection then you need to harness the power of forgiveness to set yourself free from the bitterness, pain and suffering of a breakup.
Every single day, thousands upon thousands of rejected partners find themselves trapped by the past and unable to let go of a traumatic breakup.
BUT IMAGINE WHAT IT WOULD BE LIKE TO WAKE UP EVERY MORNING AND NOT BE THINKING ABOUT YOUR EX.
By practising forgiveness you will diminish negative feelings of anger, pain and depression. You will be able to forge loving relationships and have increased feelings of hope, peacefulness and self-confidence.
DISCOVER HOW TO EMPOWER YOURSELF
Letting Go Of Breakups: How To Let Go Of Someone You Love With The Power of Forgiveness focuses on practical solutions that you can use for permanent results. You will learn empowering strategies that enable you to forgive and let go of the past. Feelings of hopelessness and resentment will be banished. You will discover how to leverage your inner strength and focus solely on the power of forgiveness.
YOU WILL LEARN:
How to make peace with the past
How to let go of resentment
How to forgive and let go of your ex
How forgiveness improves your well-being
How to put the past into perspective
If you want to reclaim your sanity, self-respect and happiness, then you must read Letting Go Of Breakups: How To Let Go Of Someone You Love With The Power of Forgiveness. It will help you put the past into perspective and let go of your ex with forgiveness. It will painlessly guide you towards making peace with the past, help you begin living in the present and look forward to the future.
ARE YOU READY TO ADD FORGIVENESS TO YOUR LIFE?
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March 4, 2015
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The two were constantly at odds, and Bjelland played out their feud with a knowing eye in the video for BiT’s Bruise Violet single, which featured a coterie of Bjelland doppelgangers in “kinderwhore” drag. Among them was the artist Cindy Sherman, whose photographs would provide unforgettable cover art for two of the band’s albums.
Some dismissed the Love-Bjelland feud as petty grrrl stuff – or worse: reduced it to a boner-worthy cat fight, mostly because they were too witless to appreciate the queer and complex power dynamics at work in such intense female relationships.
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Babes in Toyland, the recently reunited Minneapolis trio founded by Kat Bjelland in 1987, were a major force during their 90s heyday. They played Lollapalooza, got a primetime shout out from Beavis and Butt-Head, marshalled a wave of fierce femme rock (which Thurston Moore cringingly named “foxcore”.
Rock tends to have a one-in-one-out policy for women, and Bjelland’s star has been roundly eclipsed by long-time frenemy and perennial provocateur Courtney Love (who very briefly joined Babes in Toyland, of which encounter Bjelland said: “Courtney practised with Babes in Toyland only once, and it sucked. After that, it was like ‘Bye, Courtney’”).
“Collaboratively administrate turnkey channels whereas virtual e-tailers. Objectively seize scalable metrics whereas proactive services. sources networks the 57th Grammy Awards”
The two were constantly at odds, and Bjelland played out their feud with a knowing eye in the video for BiT’s Bruise Violet single, which featured a coterie of Bjelland doppelgangers in “kinderwhore” drag. Among them was the artist Cindy Sherman, whose photographs would provide unforgettable cover art for two of the band’s albums. Some dismissed the Love-Bjelland feud as petty grrrl stuff – or worse: reduced it to a boner-worthy cat fight, mostly because they were too witless to appreciate the queer and complex power dynamics at work in such intense female relationships. True believers saw it for what it was: an electrifying clash of equals where love, rivalry and obsession had become indistinguishable a radical sameness.
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Babes in Toyland, the recently reunited Minneapolis trio founded by Kat Bjelland in 1987, were a major force during their 90s heyday. They played Lollapalooza, got a primetime shout out from Beavis and Butt-Head, marshalled a wave of fierce femme rock (which Thurston Moore cringingly named “foxcore”.
Rock tends to have a one-in-one-out policy for women, and Bjelland’s star has been roundly eclipsed by long-time frenemy and perennial provocateur Courtney Love (who very briefly joined Babes in Toyland, of which encounter Bjelland said: “Courtney practised with Babes in Toyland only once, and it sucked. After that, it was like ‘Bye, Courtney’”).
“Collaboratively administrate turnkey channels whereas virtual e-tailers. Objectively seize scalable metrics whereas proactive services. sources networks the 57th Grammy Awards”
The two were constantly at odds, and Bjelland played out their feud with a knowing eye in the video for BiT’s Bruise Violet single, which featured a coterie of Bjelland doppelgangers in “kinderwhore” drag. Among them was the artist Cindy Sherman, whose photographs would provide unforgettable cover art for two of the band’s albums. Some dismissed the Love-Bjelland feud as petty grrrl stuff – or worse: reduced it to a boner-worthy cat fight, mostly because they were too witless to appreciate the queer and complex power dynamics at work in such intense female relationships. True believers saw it for what it was: an electrifying clash of equals where love, rivalry and obsession had become indistinguishable a radical sameness.
Drone Strikes: Isn’t this Terrorism?
Babes in Toyland, the recently reunited Minneapolis trio founded by Kat Bjelland in 1987, were a major force during their 90s heyday. They played Lollapalooza, got a primetime shout out from Beavis and Butt-Head, marshalled a wave of fierce femme rock (which Thurston Moore cringingly named “foxcore”.
Rock tends to have a one-in-one-out policy for women, and Bjelland’s star has been roundly eclipsed by long-time frenemy and perennial provocateur Courtney Love (who very briefly joined Babes in Toyland, of which encounter Bjelland said: “Courtney practised with Babes in Toyland only once, and it sucked. After that, it was like ‘Bye, Courtney’”).
“Collaboratively administrate turnkey channels whereas virtual e-tailers. Objectively seize scalable metrics whereas proactive services. sources networks the 57th Grammy Awards”
The two were constantly at odds, and Bjelland played out their feud with a knowing eye in the video for BiT’s Bruise Violet single, which featured a coterie of Bjelland doppelgangers in “kinderwhore” drag. Among them was the artist Cindy Sherman, whose photographs would provide unforgettable cover art for two of the band’s albums. Some dismissed the Love-Bjelland feud as petty grrrl stuff – or worse: reduced it to a boner-worthy cat fight, mostly because they were too witless to appreciate the queer and complex power dynamics at work in such intense female relationships. True believers saw it for what it was: an electrifying clash of equals where love, rivalry and obsession had become indistinguishable a radical sameness.
January 12, 2015
Facebook Narcissist
I’ve never really understood why people feel the need to live their lives out through social media sites such as Facebook. So, as a reluctant and somewhat bemused Facebook user, I confess to feeling rather smug after reading recently published research undertaken by Western Illinois University.* In a study of 294 students, measuring self-promoting Facebook behavior, researchers established a direct link between the number of friends you have on Facebook and the extent to which you are a “socially disruptive” narcissist.
Self promoting behavior includes activities such as; posting status updates and photos of oneself; tagging oneself and updating profile information. Such self promotion is typically combined with anti-social behavior such as; seeking social support more than one provides it; getting angry when people do not comment on one’s status updates and retaliating against any negative comments posted.
The study found that those students who scored highly on the Narcissistic Personality Inventory survey had a large circle of Facebook friends and were also more likely to tag themselves in photographs, in addition to posting frequent updates.
Although several earlier surveys had also identified a correlation between Facebook activity and narcissism, this latest research goes one step further as it links the number of Facebook friends to the most “toxic” elements of narcissistic personality disorder symptoms.
There are growing concerns that teenagers, in particular, are becoming progressively more narcissistic and obsessed with self image and shallow friendships. Social media sites such as Facebook provide a perfect platform for such narcissistic propensities.
*Christopher J. Carpenter – Department of Communication, Western Illinois University. Study published in the journal Personality and Individual Differences.
Do You Have Any Narcissistic Facebook Friends?
I ended a relationship several years back with a man who exhibited narcissistic behavior. Hence, my interest in this personality disorder. Narcissistic Personality Disorder in men is more common than in women. Whether or not he was ever diagnosed with full blown Narcissistic Personality Disorder, I don’t know. I didn’t wait to find out. Nonetheless, his social media behavior totally intrigued me.
Over a period of time, I noticed that this friend…let’s call him Adam for clarity …would regularly change his profile picture. Once, if not several times a week. Compare that to myself who has kept the same profile pic for over 5 years!!
Also, Adam continually added photographs of himself. But only of himself. Rarely were any friends or family pictured with him. Just Adam on his own. I would estimate that he has somewhere in the region of 200 photographs just of himself!
Adam was also being tagged, on a frequent basis, in his friends’ photographs. But these tagged photo’s didn’t actually picture Adam . Confused? So was I!
Initially I thought that maybe I was wrong and that these people clearly thought a lot of Adam to tag him on their childrens’ (his nieces/nephews/cousins etc) photo’s. Until it suddenly dawned on me that Adam was actually tagging himself!
Adam has also grown his friends’ list to nearly 500.
Adam’s daily posts comprise 90% of my Facebook news feed. He is relentless! I, on the other hand, feel satisfied if I manage to post a “Happy Birthday” to my friends and on the right day!
Sound familiar? Maybe you have some socially disruptive narcissistic friends also
How Not To Become A Socially Disruptive Narcissist
If you don’t want to get caught up in this social media trap, and become a socially disruptive narcissist, then try these few simple tips…
Limit the amount of time you spend on Facebook.
Don’t post unless it is really newsworthy.
Delete those “friends” whom you don’t really know.
Increase your privacy settings.
Reduce the number of photo’s you have, just of yourself.
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January 6, 2015
The Reality of Being The Other Woman
What You Really Should Know About Being A MistressControversial, brutal…but honest…
Are you suffering at the hands of a married man?
Are you fed up of being used and lied to?
Are you fed up of always being second best?
Are you sacrificing your life for crumbs?
This is the sad reality of being the Other Woman, to a married man. As soon as the euphoria of the affair wears off, you quickly become accustomed to broken promises, lies and being treated like a sex object. The more you give, the more he takes. While you are living a lonely, painful existence, always waiting for the phone to ring, he is having the best of both worlds.
Does This Sound Like You?
If so, then you are not alone. There are tens of thousands of mistresses in exactly the same situation as yourself. He keeps saying that he is going to leave his wife, yet he is still with her. Deadlines keep coming and going, but nothing changes. You feel sad, used and isolated. This is not what you signed up for. This is not what love is supposed to be like.
The Reality of Being the Other Woman is Your Lifeline…
Most single women do not set out to have an affair with a married man. Some women don’t even realise that their lover is married, until it is far too late. Even though they have been mislead and lied to, they cannot find the emotional strength to leave him.
If you want to reclaim your sanity, self-respect and happiness, then you must read The Reality of Being the Other Woman. It provides a candid insight into the reality of dating a married man. It is the wake up call that you have long been waiting for, to help you dump this miserable excuse of a man, and regain control of your life.
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Is He Cheating?
The moment it dawns on you, that your husband or partner has been unfaithful, is devastatingly emotional. It may even make you feel physically sick. A myriad of unanswered questions accompany the crushing sense of betrayal that you are experiencing.
‘Who is she?’
‘How long has it been going on?’
‘Who else knows?’
‘What is going to happen to me and the kids?’
Your world has fallen apart.
But it doesn’t have to be like this…
If your partner has been cheating on you, then this moment of realisation will inevitably occur. It is entirely your decision whether or not you choose to ignore the signs of his continued infidelity.
Bad things happen…it’s a fact of life. There will always be actions and events that you are powerless to control. Nonetheless, you do have the power to influence how you react to these situations. You can choose to be a victim of your circumstances, or you can choose to be a survivor. The choice is yours.
Wouldn’t you much prefer to have the opportunity to save your marriage, rather than let some stranger snatch it away from you?
Are you really prepared to hand control of your future happiness and financial security to a third party?
Ask yourself, what right does SHE have to interfere in your marriage and influence how you and your children will live the rest of your lives?
You need to uncover the truth and you need to take control of the situation…it’s time to fight back!
In order to do this, you must be able to recognise the signs of an adulterous affair.
How To Spot The Tell-Tale Signs Of Infidelity
Unearthing evidence that your partner has been cheating is not always easy. Not all men roll in late at night, reeking of perfume and with scarlet red lipstick stains on their shirt collar.
Fortunately for you, no matter how good a liar he thinks he is, or how well he believes that he has covered his tracks, there will always be tell-tale signs of an illicit affair. You just need to know what to look out for.
Is he spending less time at home?
Is he less affection towards you?
Is there no ‘sexy time’ in the bedroom anymore?
Is he turning up with lavish gifts and flowers?
Is he prone to mood swings?
Are there lots of unexplained absences?
Are his friends avoiding you or behaving strangely?
Is the passenger seat of the car in a different position to where you left it?
Having said this, the biggest mistake that you could make, is to tackle your partner, before you have gathered enough evidence to confirm your suspicions. Is He Cheating? will help guide you through this. You will discover how his body language, behaviour and lies are constantly giving him away.
WARNING! Don’t confront him, without having sufficient proof. It may irreparably damage your relationship and make matters far worse than they already are. If your allegations are unfounded, it will also serve to make you look insecure and paranoid.
Read Is He Cheating? and learn how to spot the tell-tale signs of infidelity. It could save your marriage!
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January 5, 2015
The Ex Addict
Have you ever had a relationship that you simply can’t forget? Do you long for someone who is emotionally or physically unavailable to you? Are you infatuated with an individual who doesn’t even know that you exist? No matter how hard you try, this one person occupies your every single thought. Constantly ‘living in the past,’ you are stuck in a time-warp and unable to move forward with your life.
Call it what you want. Love sickness, infatuation, obsessive love or addictive love. It is all the same. A powerful, overwhelming and complex emotional state in which you feel helpless, worthless, anxious and desperate. This is the painful reality of love addiction.
Caught in the grip of obsessive behaviour, you are consumed with an uncontrollable desire to call, text, email or even stalk your ex. You develop an unconscious habit of over-analysing every single interaction, with the object of your desire, often replaying it over-and-over in your mind.
This may not even be the first time that you have felt and behaved this way. You may recognise this pattern of destructive behaviour as being typical of your response to the breakup of a relationship.
All over the world there are rejected men and women who are compulsive, dependent and addicted to someone they know, either personally or superficially. Even though this obsessional behaviour often begins in a relatively innocuous manner, if left unmanaged, then it may escalate into something far more sinister.
This book demonstrates how easily, and progressively, a relatively innocent infatuation can progress from simple information gathering, right through to murder.
Do not allow yourself to become an addict!
The Ex Addict will help you break the cycle of love addiction and put an end to your obsessive thinking. You will gain an insight into the signs of addiction and why you repeatedly behave the way that you do.
You will take action to improve your life and break the obsessive habits that you have developed, in your personal relationships. You will let go of your fear, anxiety and the need to control. As you begin the healing process you will rediscover your inner strength, become emotionally self-sufficient and look forward to building healthy and long-lasting relationships.
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January 4, 2015
30 Day No Contact Rule
Get over your ex in 30 days using the No Contact Rule. Recover faster from your breakup and make your ex regret the day he decided to dump you!
Coping with a breakup can be excruciatingly painful. You are experiencing a nauseating knot in the pit of your stomach. You cannot sleep and you cannot eat. Overcome with numbness or hysteria, you are experiencing a pain you never thought possible. You feel empty and alone. Possibly in a state of shock, a deep, dark sickness envelopes your entire body. You feel confused, hurt and upset. Betrayed, and humiliated. Breakups hurt and, at one-time or another, we have all experienced the same excruciatingly painful feelings that rejection has to offer.
Breakups are never easy. All you want, is to be reunited with your ex. No matter how much support you have, dealing with the fallout of a breakup is a very lonely and traumatic experience. Sadly, even your closest family and friends will eventually tire of your tears and emotional meltdowns. You need to regain control of your life and, the sooner you do this, the sooner the pain will begin to subside.
The 30 Day No Contact Rule is the ultimate guide to surviving a breakup. Over 70 pages of advice and ‘must follow’ rules to get you through the pain and heartache of the first 30 days of your breakup.
Using the No Contact Rule strategy, you will discover how to become emotionally stronger and maintain your dignity intact.
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