Stylo Fantome's Blog - Posts Tagged "definitions"
S&M - "Now the pain is my pleasure, Cause nothing could measure"
I am writing this blog as an "instruction" manual of sorts for my book, ha ha, as I have seen people show confusion over it. Is it dark? Is it erotica? Is it abuse? Why does Jameson say such mean things? And why does Tate tolerate it? Shock that he says those kinds of things period, and shock that a woman would like it.
The dictionary defines sadomasochism as:
Noun.
1. interaction, especially sexual activity, in which one person enjoys inflicting physical or mental suffering on another person, who derives pleasure from experiencing pain.
I'm sorry, Rihanna, but whips and chains aren't the only way to play at S&M. Jameson Kane prefers to use his mouth - specifically his words. Tatum happens to like it.
My book showcases a consensual sadomasochistic relationship. Not BDSM. Sadomasochism. There is a difference, and people seem to be confused by this - they see sadomasochism, their brain thinks S&M, and then immediately bondage and riding crops pop in to their heads. But S&M - even BDSM - covers a HUGE group and genre. It can be lots of different things! That's why I love authors like SD Hildreth and CJ Roberts and Olivia Cunning, who are willing to explore any and ALL avenues of sexual wants and desires.
My book is kinky. I think it is fetish. I think it is unusual. I think it is crazy. I think it is dirty-talk on a whole new level. And I think it is DEFINITELY taboo.
Jameson is not a hero, nor does he want to be one.
Tate is not a heroine, she is just a girl living life her way.
And if there is any lingering confusion as to what this story is about, the title of the book is not on accident.
Degradation: noun
1. The act of degrading
Degrading: verb
1. to lower in dignity or estimation; bring into contempt
2. to lower in character or quality; debase.
The dictionary defines sadomasochism as:
Noun.
1. interaction, especially sexual activity, in which one person enjoys inflicting physical or mental suffering on another person, who derives pleasure from experiencing pain.
I'm sorry, Rihanna, but whips and chains aren't the only way to play at S&M. Jameson Kane prefers to use his mouth - specifically his words. Tatum happens to like it.
My book showcases a consensual sadomasochistic relationship. Not BDSM. Sadomasochism. There is a difference, and people seem to be confused by this - they see sadomasochism, their brain thinks S&M, and then immediately bondage and riding crops pop in to their heads. But S&M - even BDSM - covers a HUGE group and genre. It can be lots of different things! That's why I love authors like SD Hildreth and CJ Roberts and Olivia Cunning, who are willing to explore any and ALL avenues of sexual wants and desires.
My book is kinky. I think it is fetish. I think it is unusual. I think it is crazy. I think it is dirty-talk on a whole new level. And I think it is DEFINITELY taboo.
Jameson is not a hero, nor does he want to be one.
Tate is not a heroine, she is just a girl living life her way.
And if there is any lingering confusion as to what this story is about, the title of the book is not on accident.
Degradation: noun
1. The act of degrading
Degrading: verb
1. to lower in dignity or estimation; bring into contempt
2. to lower in character or quality; debase.
