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Look Good in Your Clothes – Regardless of Your Size

I know a lot of you are feeling an economic pinch. And several of you have mentioned that you have added a few pounds during the shelter-in-place. So clothes shopping hasn’t been high on your list of priorities.

So, I thought I’d just share some practical thoughts about looking good in what you might already have, regardless of the size of your budget or the size of your waist. When you want to add something to your wardrobe, just keep in mind these concepts. You really won’t need to buy a lot of new things.

 

Color

One way to always look fairly chic and slimmer is to wear a solid color for an entire outfit. You can also get a similar affect by wearing slightly different tones of the same color. (I mention that in Shopping for the Real You.)

Macy’s Tommy Hilfiger poplin navy shirt dress $93

Nordstrom Club Monaco Double Breasted jacket $120

Generally, darker colors are more slimming. Color reflects light, so the darker the textile, the less light will reflect off bumps and bulges. But actually any mono color outfit can be very chic.  Also, textiles with a flat weave (e.g., many cottons, linen, gabardines, etc.) instead of shiny (some silks, some rayons, polished cotton) will do the same. Avoid breaking up the line of an outfit with colors that are in sharp contrast, even if they are in your palette. Also, avoid color breaks that draw attention to the widest part of your body, or wherever you are carrying more weight.

 

 

 

 

Line and Design

Target Trucker jacket $35

That goes for individual pieces as well: avoid wearing anything that ends where you are widest. So, for example, if you tend to carry weight around your middle, make sure that you have something – a jacket, a sweater, a peplum-style top – that ends below your waistline. That doesn’t mean you have to avoid wearing a belt or any garment with a defined waist. Just make sure that what is above and below the waist is broader than your actual waist.

Pleats that start at the waist will also emphasize any bulk around your waist or hips. That goes for both pants and skirts with pleats. (Conversely, on very thin bodies they can add some balance and shape.)

NYDJ Ami skinny jeans with welt pocket $89

If you are an exaggerated pear shape or carry a lot of extra weight around your hips, wider-leg pants are very flattering and more slimming. But if you go for straight leg pants or jeans look for ones that have welt pockets. Rounded or angled pockets will stick out as you walk or sit.

 

 

 

Proportions

Macy’s INC Tie waist utility pants $48

If you have a long torso, higher rise pants, jeans, and skirts can make your body look slimmer and your legs look longer. If you have a short torso, a waist line that hits at or slightly below your actual waist will elongate the look of your torso. Avoid very wide belts, especially those that come just under the bust line. They will make your torso look even shorter.

Baggy clothes can make you look sloppy or heavier than you actually are. Things that are too small in size can also make you look a little, well, let’s just say, not very refined.

Necklines

Nordstrom Eloquii wrap dress $60

The more roundness in your face and bone structure, the more scooped or rounded necklines will flatter you. The more angles there are in your bone structure, the more v-necks, boat necks, and asymmetrical lines will work for you. But to be perfectly honest, I think that if you want to look slimmer, v-necks work better than rounder ones.  And surplice, or wrap tops, and especially wrap dresses, make almost any body shape look like an hourglass. It’s a basic silhouette that is very feminine and flattering to just about any shaped body.

 

 

 

 

Patterns and Prints

Walmart Lee Striped Tunic Plus size $20

Unless a pattern is perfect for your coloring and personal style, the busier it is, the more the garment will look like it’s wearing you. Patterns will also date you. Prints and pattern trends tend to last about two or two and a half years. This is especially true if they are larger in scale.

Stripes are a perennial; polka dots are a perennial if they are in a reasonable size; florals can be long-lasting but again, only if they suit your color harmony and style essences.

Hem lines

Unless you have great legs, and feel comfortable showing them off, knee length skirts and dresses and , slightly below knee length are more flattering for most legs and body shapes than shorter skirts. Some of the longer midis, and ankle-length dresses and that are very popular this year can also work well. You’ll see a lot of lovely longer dresses and skirts this year. (That’s my next post – coming soon.)

Nordstrom Sanctuary Wide leg cropped pant $40

Mid-calf capris, cropped pants, and skirts are popular. But if they end exactly mid-calf they can make bulky or short legs look shorter and bulkier. (My legs are short from the knee to the ankle; and every time I try on any of the new cropped pants I look like I’ve shrunk another inch.)

 

Shoes

MAcy’s Mark Fisher Fayme Flatform sandals $68

Ankle straps of any kind will make your legs look shorter and your feet look heavier. But they will also make long feet look shorter, if that’s what you want. Angled or criss-crossed straps will elongate the look of the foot and the leg. Simple pumps in neutral colors will do the same. Also, matching your shoe color with your skin or stocking color is also elongating and slimming.

 

 

Proportions

Nordstrom Blank NYC Faux Leather Jacket $60

Unless you are very theatrical or very playful in your personal style, stick to sizes and specific items that are designed to actually fit your body. Anything that is too large or too shrunken can throw you out of balance or look awkward. (The current very over sized blazer trend is going to get old in about a year.)

 

 

 

 

So those are just a few ideas to keep in mind, especially if you’ve been enjoying cooking and eating during the lock down. I wish you all health, happiness, and safety going forward.

 

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High Quality Clothes on Sale – NOW

I recently surveyed my readers to ask what they care most about in fashion. Well, that  quickly became irrelevant! Now, what we care about is our health and that of our loved ones. Still, all good – and bad – things must come to an end. The war against this virus and its quarantine will eventually be over. Most of us will be ditching our sweatpants, pajamas, and sneakers and getting back into civilian clothes.

The upside of all this mess is that if you want some well-made high quality things, there are incredible bargains to be had right now. We may never see prices or deals like this again. If you do a little digging you’ll likely find that something you need is on sale.

I’m going to show three fairly classic types items in natural fibers from five different stores and websites. (I’ve included coupon codes for a couple but these tend to  change often and may or may not work at the time you read this.)

 

Cashmere Sweaters

You can never go wrong with a cashmere sweater. They always look sophisticated, they are often wearable year-round, (especially if you sit in air-conditioned rooms in warmer months) and they last. Although they vary in quality, based on the ply of the yarn, you can still get very good quality cashmere without blowing your budget.

Uniqlo – I like this Japanese manufacturer because they have some of the best quality cashmere at one of the lowest price points anywhere. They offer them in various necklines and many colors (far right photo.) I own two of them and love them. But they tend to run out of colors and sizes fairly quickly, as you can imagine. So if you see something that appeals, don’t wait too long. Try this coupon code for 20% off: D464700

Uniqlo cashmere v-neck $70

Everlane Cashmere Crew $100

Everlane – This company offers a more limited variety in terms of color, but like most of their clothing, you can expect very high quality. You’ll usually find them in sophisticated neutrals like white, gray, black, oatmeal, tan, loden and then a few seasonal colors thrown in (photo on the right.) This year there are shades of yellow, pink and blue.

Macy’s cashmere v-neck in gray $36

Macy’s – Some of their lower-end cashmere sweaters aren’t as high in quality as these others. That’s because they are made from thinner yarn and tend to pill more easily. But they are certainly wearable. I have one in a dark brown crew neck that I wear all the time. When they are on sale, the prices here are unbeatable. Try this coupon code for even more discounts: FORYOU

 

Last brand cashmere crew $50

Last Brand – Here is a newcomer to the market and they offer just a few really nice things at about half the price of, say, Everlane. They have cashmere sweaters, silk tops and blouses, tees, an organic cotton blouse and “conflict free” jewelry. I purchased two of their items – one sweater and one silk blouse – to do a value/quality comparison. The sweater I tried (shown on the left) was well made and had a nice thickness. I only returned it because it was actually a more oyster-white than in the photo. That’s a shade that works well for Subtle Blended (summer) color types but made me look a bit sallow.

 

Cotton, Silk and Linen Blouses

A great button down white blouse is a perennial for any wardrobe. If your coloring is on the warm side you will want to look for ivory or khaki instead of bright white or for a change, maybe go for one of the colors or striped versions that are popular this year.

Uniqlo linen blouse $30

Uniqlo: With spring just around the corner you’ll soon be breaking out your linen things. Uniqlo has some really great linen blouses: long-sleeve, sleeveless, short sleeve, tunic length. They come in over a dozen colors as well as three striped versions. The long-sleeve button downs are slightly oversized, as is the popular style now.

 

Everlane silk blouse $98

Everlane: Long-sleeved silk or linen  – you just can’t go wrong with their blouses. I have two silk ones and always feel extremely chic and pulled-together when I wear them. They come in over a dozen seasonal colors and varying collar styles. Here is one of their silk button-downs in a rich French blue. They also have short sleeve linen blouses ($50) as well as cotton long sleeved blouses. ($56)

 

LastBrand washable silk blouse $58

Last Brand: I tried out their cream colored silk blouse and compared it with an old Equipment cream silk blouse I’ve had for years. In general, it was quite well made. The stitching was fine, the fit was fine, but it was on the thin side. Still, for the summer that could work nicely. (It does say on their site that this is a fairly sheer silk.) For better coverage I would recommend going with one of the darker colors.

Nordstrom linen/rayon blouse $28-35

Nordstrom: Catch one of their sales and you’ll always find a lot of styles, colors and fabrics to choose from. This one is a linen/rayon blend that comes in white, the rose color shown on the left, and a camo print. (I didn’t find that one very exciting, frankly. If you like camo look for it in a jacket or a t-shirt.) It runs large and is very roomy in the back, again, as is the current trend. But it still reads as fairly classic from the front. This color could add a little variety for your wardrobe.

 

Pants

The fit of pants and jeans is so highly individual that I hesitated to add this category. But since we’re coming up on warmer weather, some of the popular wide-leg pants will likely work for a lot of body shapes and style types.

Uniqlo linen/rayon pants $40

Uniqlo: This wide-leg, sashed belt style is a fun trend that will let you go casually chic this summer. It’s available here in off-white (shown on the right,) brown, green and navy and is made from a linen/rayon textile. It would look great with one of the new feminine blouses or a buttoned cardigan.

 

GAP wide-leg striped pant $38

The Gap has been bleeding red ink for a while now, which makes me a little sad. I’ve bought a lot of great tees, tops and pants there over the years. I hope they survive this shutdown. Here is a nicely made striped linen pant they they offer. The nice thing is that it comes in regular, petite, and tall sizes. It also comes in black with a white stripe. The gather in the front – a kind of semi-pleat, will emphasize  a tummy, though. So if you’ve been hitting the oreos during quarantine, this one may not work as well.

 

Nordstrom Caslon white linen pants $59

Nordstrom’s Caslon version (their in-store brand) comes in pure white and is made from 100% linen, shown here on the left. It’s got deep on-seam pockets and some elastic in the back of the waistband. That means it’s going to look gathered in the back. So if you’re carrying a little weight there, check out the Ralph Lauren one that follows instead.

 

Macy’s Ralph Lauren linen pants $70

Macy’s: You can always count on Macy’s to have a pretty wide variety of linen and cotton blend warm-weather pants. I chose this one from Ralph Lauren because of the construction. It has darts in the back at the waist instead of just gathers, so it would likely look better if you don’t link a lot of fabric bunching up near your bum. It comes in navy, fuchsia, white, navy, tan and a kind of army green shade.

 

Thrift Shops and Re-Sale

Finally, once we are back in the world expect to see a tsunami of new offerings at your local thrift or resale shop. It will make the Marie Kondo wave look like a trickle. From everything I read, a lot of you have been doing some major closet clearing during your enforced hibernation. Just one caveat. Germs can stay on clothing for up to 72 hours, so we are told. Although the specific piece you like may have just come from the cleaners that’s not guaranteed for any of the items that were next to it on the rack, or in the hands of people who were in the shop before you arrived.

Still – you are going to be seeing a fabulous assortment of clothing, jewelry and household items that will be available for a song. So if you want to look sophisticated and your funds are scarce right now, you have great options.

Stay healthy and well and I’ll see you on the other side of this pandemic!

 

[Disclosure: Some of these retailers are my affiliate. I might earn a very small commission when you purchase anything from these links at no additional cost to you.]

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Cool Clothes…For Hot Flashes?

Well, I’m WAY past this demographic. (I doubt the girl in this pic is even there yet.) But, my husband’s aunt had hot flashes until the day she died at 84. Clearly, endocrine fluctuations can continue long after menopause. If you’ve dealt with hot flashes you know what it suddenly means to have to strip off layers, even in the dead of winter.

So I was intrigued when a lovely woman in the UK named Nancy Zeffman contacted me about trying out some of her clothing. Nancy is the co-founder of a company called Cucumber, as in “cool as a cucumber.” She and her long-time friend, Eileen Willet, saw a need for stylish, sustainable sleepwear and loungewear that could help a woman maintain an even body temperature, day and night, hot flash or non-hot flash.

Sustainability vs. Aesthetics

Now, this is where I had to stretch. Being a Lazy Fashionista I simply love the idea of loungewear. But also being mostly Natural in my style essences, I have a visceral resistance to anything not made from natural fibers. All Cucumber clothing is either made from high-tech sustainable synthetics fabrics or those that have some synthetic in the textile. They are anti-microbial (an odor-eliminator) and they wick moisture away from the body. They describe their textiles as “thermo-regulating and moisture wicking.” That means you will not have to wash them as often as most similar items. The fabrics also incorporate volcanic minerals that “keep the body at the ideal core temperature.” I decided to reserve judgement and try a few of their items.

Good packaging

Nancy sent me three things from the collection: this Pacific Blue oversize tee, a Rose ballet top, and a pair of Cream drawstring pants. The first thing I loved was the packaging. They arrived in a padded paper bag that was sealed firmly with sewn thread instead of plastic tape. A light layer of tissue was wrapped around the clothes. In spite of making the trip all the way from London, neither the bag nor its contents showed any damage or wear. So far so good.

Although they advertise that their clothes are essentially “no-wrinkle” they were a little wrinkled. Not surprising, though, based on the distance they traveled. But the information sheet that came with them said that a warm iron would take care of wrinkles, and they did so, quite easily.

Namaste and Nighty Night

The tee and pants are featured in a few places on the site, including their sleepwear section. I chose to try them out for my meditation, yoga asanas, and hand weight workout. The drawstring pants are made from a silky fabric that was extremely comfortable and yes, silky, but not slippery like a satin-like fabric would be. I’m going to be wearing these a lot for multiple purposes. The blue top was a little boxy on me, but most every loose-fitting tee is. Still, it felt very comfortable. In fact, I’m wearing it as I write this post.

The rose ballet top is nowhere in my personal color palette, but I just loved it anyway. It hangs like the surplice ballet tops we wore over our leotards after ballet class. I think it is a style that would be flattering on almost anyone. There is a decidedly feminine flavor to all their clothing.

As it is winter here, I wasn’t sweating much (I rarely do anyway unless I’m in a sauna for some length of time.) But I can well imagine how I would have welcomed these items back when I was sticking a leg out from under the covers in the middle of the night, or flipping the blanket back and forth to fan myself.

Recommendation

Here’s my summary. They make very high quality well-made items, designed with simple but sophisticated styling. They will last a very long time, and several of the pieces can serve multiple purposes such as going from the gym to lunch or out for errands, without looking frumpy or sweaty. That explains why they aren’t inexpensive. But you’re paying for quality. The fact that they keep you cool, wick moisture away, and are odor free after a few wearings, add to the benefits.

Their sizes are listed for the UK, but the conversion is simple with this chart. I think their items are very much worth checking out if you are looking for workout clothes, travel items, sleepwear, or just some very nice pieces to feel comfy and luxurious wearing around the house.

(Disclosure: I receive no compensation for this review or for any of your purchases from Cucumber.)

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French Dressing – Why French Women Look So Chic

OK – so, I am a little obsessed with how French women dress and there’s a reason for this: French style pretty much follows the guidelines I write about in my book, Shopping for the Real You.

I’m not talking about the artful way they tie their scarves, which, actually, they’re wearing pretty loose and casually these days. Nor am I going to reference some of the more eclectic and extreme street-style outfits a lot of the “influencers” are wearing to the spring and fall fashion shows. I’m just going to share how the average, very chic, very self-aware French woman dresses on a daily basis.

Simplicity First

French women opt for simplicity. They choose Classic basic pieces of the highest quality that they can afford. That means perfectly fitting trousers or jeans, jackets or coats, and outerwear. But then they add a feminine touch. That’s because French style is inherently feminine.

For example, they might pair a more menswear look in a jacket or pants with a more flirty blouse or sweater. Or they will add just a few strategic pieces of jewelry that draw they eye where they want you to look. Or they might spice up their neutral clothing with a handbag or scarf in an eye-catching color or design.

Their closets aren’t a jumble of fads, multiple prints, or complicated pieces. Like all chic women, they know the silhouettes that are most flattering for their bodies and only choose those. They shop intentionally. Altogether, it is a very simple but effective approach to fashion.

So let’s look at a few things that are available now and explain why you might find them in a chic French woman’s wardrobe.

A signature leather jacket

Fundamentally leather is a considered a “yang” textile because it is durable, dense, and derived from nature. (I’m not going to get into a faux vs. real discussion here.) But the cut, color, type of skin, and style can make it appear either softer, more “yin,” or more edgy, “yang.” For example, you’ll see a lot of leather blazers in the stores right now. The leather adds an element of yang to what is a classic piece, Classic being neither neither yin nor yang. But any leather or suede jacket will project a different essence based on type of skin and color. One with a metallic finish will add a bit of drama – yang. If the color is, for example, pink or pale blue, that takes down the yang quality of the skin. If it’s in a very fine lamb, suede, or kid leather, it’s not as “tough” as a stiffer skin or a texture.

Here are a few examples of both faux and real jackets that are a little off the beaten path.

 

Blank NY Suede Moto Jacket

Free People Faux snakeskin leather jacket $198

Cole Haan Lambskin jacket $299

Blank NY Faux leather jacket $98

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Made to Order Clothes

In my dream world I have a closet full of perfectly fitting made-to-order clothes in all my perfect colors. In reality I am paying off my tailor’s mortgage. Unless you’re adept at sewing you’re at the mercy of whatever is available in the stores and online every season. That means you won’t easily find the necklines, sleeve lengths, hem lengths, etc. that suit your style and fit. But do not despair! You have options. Here are a few websites offering made-to-order clothes.

A New Classic

Sene Studio Woman’s blazer and pants $595

Sene Studio: This LA-based company has a very hip vibe, so I thought I’d check them out. They offer classic suit pieces: blazers, skirts and pants. If you’re besotted by the oversized “boyfriend” blazer look with exaggerated shoulders you won’t find them here. They make basic suit pieces exactly to your specifications and measurements using some pretty high tech algorithms. I asked about the textile and this was their response: “It is a synthetic, technically a polyester, but the high-grade kind used by brands like Lululemon. Cheaper polyesters are a single fiber and have mechanical stretch. Ours is a bi-component yarn made with up-cycled polyester and has better stretch and recovery.”

Sene Studio free blouse with suit

I’m not a big fan of polyester and they aren’t inexpensive items. But the trend toward these high-tech fabrics is a very popular one and would be certainly be great for part of a travel wardrobe, which is why I was attracted to them in the first place. They promise a 60-day money back guarantee, even after they make the pieces. They will also completely re-make something if it doesn’t fit. And if you pre-order you get a custom made shirt for free. So, if you aren’t religiously opposed to polyester you would probably love their things.

Dresses and Skirts

Kitmade LBD $235

Kitmade pencil skirt $130

Kitmade is a Texas-based company that offers dresses, blouses skirts and some jackets. They have about 30 dress styles, about half a dozen jackets, about ten tops/blouses and a few skirts. You can choose from 27 different fabrics (silks, cotton, wool, linen and some poly) and customize each piece by feature. That means you can add pockets, change neckline, etc. But here’s the cool thing. If you have an old favorite you want duplicated they will work with you to create a new version, using your item to create a pattern. It’s like having a personal seamstress making or re-making something for you.

Frilly “Christy” blouse $205

Frilly True to the name there are lace tops, ruffled top jumpsuits and flowy knife pleated skirts. But they also custom make classic pants, dresses, jackets and blazers as well as blouses. They have some cool blazers that can come in silk, linen, tweedy textiles. But the “customizing” interface is a bit maddening. Some styles would likely appeal only to those who are very young and experimental. They also make outerwear in wool, twill, and a faux that they call “pooky fur” which looks dangerously like a wookie. They advertise that from the “hardware, to the hemline, and fabric” you call the shots. Each piece is hand made by workers in factories that they own and they proudly say that they honor their workers.

 

eShakti square-neck dress $60

eShakti floral topper $55

eShakti cargo pants $50

eShakti I’ve heard about this company for a while now. Based on reviews they had some construction issues early on but seem to have gotten their act together. They are based in New York and the manufacturing is done in India. That means they are giving jobs to less advantaged women there, which is a good thing. You certainly can’t beat their prices. The videos and still shots of their clothing indicates that they are fairly high quality. They have lot of dresses that you can customize (sleeves, necklines, etc.) tops and blouses, pants, skirts and jumpsuits. They offer $25 off the first order. No code needed. Just click on the link. They promise a money-back guarantee but the reviews from customers say it can be a bit slow in coming. At these prices it might be worth the wait.

 

Rita Phil”Flora” skirt $159

Rita Phil “Wendy” wrap skirt $155

Rita Phil This site gets consistently good reviews for their custom made skirts. They also make pants but you have to use the search feature on the site to find those. They offer 60 different fabrics and although I can’t tell what the textiles are they look beautiful. They show 31 different styles of skirts, three styles of pants (ankle, trouser, and bootcut) and offer a money-back guarantee similar to Senestudio’s. And they will also give you a $30 credit for minor alterations at a local tailor if you prefer to do that instead of have it re-made by them.

So those are a few ideas for you. If I try one out I will model it here. In fact, I’m going to be doing more of that soon. And if you missed my video series: Expert Edition, it’s up for another week! (Be sure to share it with your friends.)

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Swimsuits for Every Body

I know you’re already seeing fall fashions in the stores, but c’mon – it’s only the beginning of August! Honestly, now is the time to buy a swimsuit. This year there’s a lot of variety and something for everyone. Choosing the right one just depends on your body shape and how much of yourself you are willing to show. That requires that you pay attention to how high-cut is the leg opening, how high or low is the back, whether the two-piece bottom has a high or low rise, and how much support you need in the bust.

 

One-piece wonders

A simple maillot style, which is essentially like a leotard, is almost universally flattering. And like an LBD, a basic black maillot works for a lot of seasonal color types, unless you fall into the category that we call Subtle Blended or “summer” coloring. In that case, a dark navy swimsuit would probably be better with your skin tone.

Madewell “Second Wave” $70

Madewell’s variation has a lower-cut back and leg openings that are a tad high but also offers some decent support for the bust area because of the crisscross straps in the back.

Hermoza “Marisa” $108

If you are a little more modest but still want some style, Hermoza, one of Oprah’s favorite sites, has very well-made one-piece and two-piece (tankinis that look like one-piece) swimsuits with a bit more coverage. They also have tutorials on how to shop for a suit based on your body shape, how it should fit, and which kinds offer the best support. This square-neck is one of their more tame styles.

Speedo Princess Seam $68

For a well-fitting dependable suit there’s always good old Speedo. They have multiple sizes and a few variations on the basic maillot. This one has a little more style in the straps on the back but is still considered one of their more “conservative” styles.

La Blanca “Island Goddess” $79

For a little more elegance LaBlanca is a company that makes high quality and pretty stylish suits. In this one at the right, the addition of some shirring at the waist crates a slimmer line through the torso.

 

Take Me Back

Speaking of shirring, you’re going to see a lot of it because Retro is back! When I say retro, think: 1940’s and 1950’s 1-piece and 2-piece swimsuits. These 2-piece suits are not like what we think of when we hear “bikinis.” They have bra tops that are pretty tame, and the bottoms are mostly high-waisted. So, if you’re over 50 or plus size, yes, you can definitely consider one of these. What style archetypes types can wear them? Well, you need the personality to go with them, which means they would work best for High Spirited, Youthful, or Romantic style types.

Suki Willow Bandeau Tie Front $95

 

Suki Sydney “Adira” $75

Suki Sydney (they also sell in the US) has several variations on the theme. This one on the left is actually a one-piece that looks like the popular throwback style. And this one on the right could have been worn by a screen star of the 40’s.

 

 

Modcloth “Esther Williams Bathing Beauty” floral $89

Modcloth “Esther Williams Bathing Beauty” $89 gingham

Modcloth, the inclusive-size vintage-style site, features a lot of the one-piece styles inspired by Esther William. In fact, they are manufactured by her fan site. These also come in red or green with white polka dots and black with a silver and gold paillette pattern for sizes 4-22W.

 

 

 

Sizes Galore

 

Andieswim “Maui” top and “Bikini” Bottom $95

Andieswim Catalina” ribbed $115

Finally, there are two sites I like these days because they carry a variety of styles, multiple sizes and very reasonably priced swimsuits. The first one is called Andieswim. Their suits only come in solid colors: black, white, navy, cobalt, poppy, turmeric and aqua. Their “bikini” styles have a fairly modest bra top and either a “bikini” bottom or a “high waist” bottom. This one combines the “Maui” top with their “bikini” bottom. If you choose their “high waist” bottom you get the more retro look that holds the tummy in. Their one-piece suits are mostly variations on the maillot; some fairly modest, others with higher cut leg openings and lower cut tops.

 

Summersalt “Voyager” top “Bikini Mid Rise” bottom $95

Summersalt “The Plunge” $95

Summersalt’s slogan is “designer swimwear without the designer price tag.” All their styles are under $95. They carry almost 300 different styles and colors in sizes 2-24 including maillots, 2-piece suits, high-waist to low-waist “bikinis,” some almost retro styles, athletic swimwear, and even some long-sleeve “racer” suits  for those who really want to avoid the sun. They also have a “style finder” quiz to help you figure out which one will look best on you.

 

Finally I want to thank Feedspot for listing Shopping for the Real You as one of their top 20 Fashion websites! (They feature several great sites that offer information and deals about saving money when you shop online.) They selected these sites based on reputation, quality and consistency of posts, popularity on Facebook and review by their editorial team and experts. I’m honored to be included.

Have some fun in the sun, and for those of you in the southern hemisphere, summer will be just around the corner!

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Comfy Summer Sandals

Summertime is just around the corner up here in the Northern Hemisphere. And after my recent post about comfortable shoes I received many requests to write something similar about comfortable sandals. So here they are: a variety of stylish, comfortable sandals available right now. And thank you to all who sent in your suggestions. At the end of the article are links to some brands that I didn’t review. There might be something that works best for you among those.

Birkenstock Arizona $135

Several of you mentioned Birkenstocks.  In spite of its “crunchy granola” image, their ever-popular 2-strap “Arizona” still persists and for one good reason: they are comfortable. The company has also ventured a bit into other styles including a thong sandal, a couple of wedges, and gone boldly into some metallic finishes. Just don’t plan on wearing any of them with anything too Classic.

Mephisto “Helen” Sandal $149

There are also a lot of Arizona knock-offs and Mephistos is one. All their shoes are handmade, have a shock-absorbent “Soft-Air” midsole, are made of all natural materials including leather, cork and rubber soles, and are advertised as “ultra light.” As with the Arizona, these are really best for Natural types.

 

Naot Sabrina Sandal $140

Naot, designed and made in Israel, always comes up with some new, chic-looking sandals every year. The company has a very good reputation for comfort in general, and these Sabrinas get high marks in particular. They have a moderate arch support and are fairly flexible. The come in some interesting neutral color combinations: black with gray, a kind of olive suede with tan leather, and this one in a rust brown and black. Generally, they offer Striking Contrast and Earthy Rich colors.

Naot Verbena Sandal $170

Their Verbena sandal could be in your rotation for multiple seasons. You could also wear these with almost any length pant or dress. It’s really a versatile style. They are made from nubuck and come in four nice, classy colors:  Black, Olive, Midnight Blue and Latte.

 

Ecco Damara sandal $70

Ecco consistently appears in top ten lists for comfort. Damara is a nice take on a style that Eileen Fisher launched a few years back. It comes in six colors (black leather, black nubuck, denim, red, white, and white nubuck) including this “warm gray metallic.”  So, lots of bases covered in terms of summer colors. They tend to run large, so keep that in mind when ordering. Amazon also has it in four colors: Black, Gray, Light Blue and Tan.

Sofft Mirabelle $63-80 (depending on color)

A similar style can be found in the Mirabelle from  Sofft. The company has been in production in the US since 1927. They boast natural material linings, extremely soft leather, multi-layer foot beds , and lightweight flexible uppers. It comes in an amazing thirteen different colors and animal prints.

 

All Vionic shoes have a molded, supportive foot bed and this year they have come out with a thong sandal with a back strap. It’s a nice alternative to regular thong sandals and would work well for more casual outfits.

 

Skechers Bobs Desert Kiss $35-47 (depending on color)

Skechers was mentioned repeatedly by readers. If you watched my interview with Kirsten Borrink of Barking Dog Shoes on my series Vital Vivacious and Visible after 50, you know that I am a big fan. I’m wearing a pair of their Goga Max deck shoes as I write this. Their Bob’s label provides a free pair of shoes to a child in need for very pair you purchase. This Skecher’s Bob’s Women’s Desert Kiss sandal looks pretty comfortable, has an adjustable Velcro back tab and the lacy front strap is nice for the summer. They also come in red, black and tan.

 

Clarks UnKarely Slingback $130

If you’re looking for a sandal that can give you some height and that has a little style, Clark’s Un Karely Sun Slingback platform sandal is a nice choice. It comes in Black and Sage nubuck and light tan leather. This is something that would work nicely for a Natural, Classic, and possibly Dramatic style type.

Cobb Hill Audrey $75-$100 (depending on color)

Cobb Hill recently (well a couple of years ago) merged with Rockport, and thus expanding Rockport’s offerings to include something more, well, fashionable. Their Audrey is a very versatile sandal-type shoe with a half-inch stacked heel. My friend Sandra wore hers to Europe last year and reported: “I must have walked at least 30 miles in them. I’m going to buy a second pair for my trip this spring.” You can’t beat that kind of endorsement. And they come in an astounding 14 different colors. She bought the light green.

 

Clarks Valarie Shelly sandal ($27-$95 depending on color)

If you like the idea of multi-strap gladiator sandals Clark’s has one called Shelly with a 2-inch stacked heel that looks kind of dressy. This would be nice for a Romantic and Natural combination style type. And it’s super cheap. Four neutral colors: black, tan, navy and sage (which looks more like taupe to me.)

 

 

 

And here are some other brands that get high marks for comfort:

 

Chacos – Mostly sport-type sandals but with a bit more style.

Chacos Z Cloud $110

 

 

 

 

 

Jambu – Spanish company that only uses recycled materials for packaging and largely recycled rubber in in their outsoles.

Jambu Apple Blossom $70

 

 

 

 

 

 

Ziera – This New Zealand-based company has a bit more pricey and a bit more fashionable styles.

Ziera Dior Fisherman $190

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fitflops – lots of styles, they are said to help your alignment

Fit Flop Barra $60-70

 

 

 

 

 

Bear trap sandals – Inexpensive and a great variety from sport to dressy

Bear Trap Corra $50

 

 

 

 

 

Taos – Known for comfortable shoes with removable “curves and pods” footbed, they have incorporated that construction into their sandals

Taos Trophy $115

 

 

 

 

 

Aertrex – “Support and comfort built into every pair”

Aetrex Brenda $130

 

 

 

 

 

Korkease – More style, a bit classier, mostly wider-strapped sandals (some thin ones) at mid-price points.

Korkease $140

 

 

 

 

 

Keen – Mostly Teva-like serious sport sandals at widely priced styles.

Keen Venice $95

 

 

 

 

 

So, I hope that gives you some ideas and some comfort, literally. Let me know if you try any of them out. Here’s to your Real comfortable feet!

 

And stay tuned for some very exciting news about my new free video series – starting mid July!!!

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How to Get the Perfect Fit in Your Clothes

You can buy the best quality, the most expensive, elegant clothing but unless they fit your body perfectly, you will never feel comfortable in them. Fit is everything.

In Shopping for the Real You I talk about a website called Fashion Fit Formula. This was developed by a visionary woman named Janet Cunliffe who grew up sewing her own clothes. As a result of winning a major sewing competition in her teens she was invited to work in the cutting rooms of couture houses in Paris. She definitely knows a thing or two about what constitutes good fit.

Her formula is designed to work for each individual based on their unique bone structure, not just the number of “head lengths” tall they are. I like the fact that this is not a cookie cutter approach. Once you receive your formula, you can tell your tailor exactly where you want your clothes hemmed. And you can determine the right points for necklines, jewelry, belts, etc.

I had the pleasure of interviewing Janet for my YouTube channel this week. She explained how the formula came about and what it can do for your image. I am not an affiliate for her site. I just want to encourage everyone to check it out. It can make a huge difference in your wardrobe and will save you a lot of money because you can have clothes you already wear altered to be the most flattering for your body. That gives them longevity.

Here’s the link to the interview.

BTW – I am starting a new video series where I will be interviewing fashion and style bloggers and inspirational women who will discuss tips about beauty and fashion and also share the challenges and triumphs that made them who they are today. I think you will love it. My original video series, Vital Vivacious and Visible, is now available for nearly 60% off through the month of May.

Have a great spring!

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Comfortable Daytime Shoes

After Kon-mari-ing my closet recently I was on the lookout for a new pair of shoes to replace several that I recycled. As someone with a mostly Natural style type, and because I live in a town where dressing up can mean donning a new windbreaker, I’m always searching for comfortable everyday shoes, but at least some that have a modicum of style. And of course, new shoes would have to “bring me joy.”

Josef Seibel Caren sneakers in yellow $129.95

Oh, did they ever. I nearly got whiplash when I passed the shoe store and caught sight of them in the window. Sneakers are my “thing” and marigold is one of the Pantone “colors of the year.” It’s also exactly within the range of my “playful” colors from my custom John Kitchener color palette. They are from Josef Seibel and they just make me happy when I open the closet door and see them there or when I look down and see them on my feet.

Realistically, some version of slip-ons or lace-ups are in just about everyone’s closet these days and for good reason. They last, if they are made well, they are comfortable, and thankfully, they have become classics. One of the biggest trends in these types of shoes right now is textile uppers instead of leather. The great advantage of this is that they will mold to and accommodate the idiosyncrasies of your feet. Here are several plus a few new ones that are lesser-known and that I like a lot.

Allbirds Wool Runners $95

My friend who just passed the NY State bar (no small feat and after multiple attempts – it’s apparently one of the hardest ones to pass in the country) took herself off to Paris to celebrate. The shoes she bought to wear throughout the trip were not delicate French-type ballet flats or super chic heels, but these sneakers from Allbirds. Their lace-ups come in a couple of styles, over 16 colors and have either lyocell (from trees) or – get this – wool uppers! They also have sneakers and sleek “running” shoes. She reported back to me that they were extremely comfortable, right in style, and worked very well on pavement as well as on cobble stones. And, she felt right in tune with what French women were wearing too.

Suavs The Zilker $95

Suavs offers them with breathable, sweat-wicking knit uppers with a removable and washable insole. They can also be packed flat or rolled up for travel. But we’re guessing you would love to wear them while traveling, especially because your feet tend to swell when sitting on a plane.

Rothys flats in scooter red $125

One that uses woven materials offers flats, sneakers, and loafers in multiple color and prints with eco-friendly materials (made from recycled plastic bottles) is Rothys. Full disclosure recycled plastic is here to stay, but I’m not a huge fan. Yeah, I know that’s heresy. Just don’t love the idea of my feet being encased in plastic all day. Still, they are very attractive and they actually get high marks for comfort. My friend Adrienne who has bunions, loves them and wears them all the time.

Tieks in Leopard $120-$265

Tieks are Italian made leather ballet-type slippers, designed to fold and lay flat in a purse but frankly, I would never fold and stuff a pair of shoes I had worn out onto street pavement into my purse. (Blecch!) Maybe folded and put in a plastic bag. But they are really cute and very popular. They come in nearly 80 colors and prints but only in whole sizes. They have a cushioned foam insole and two thick non-skid rubber patches on the outside of the sole, making them a lot more supportive than traditional folding ballet slippers. Also, they have a regular, not elasticized, back. And, they say that they will mold to your foot size. Still, ask them what be the best size for you – you may have to go up or down a size.

Athletic sneakers with huge thick platforms are being seen on the feet of the most extreme fashionistas in Europe and they’re wearing them with skirts and pants. I find them pretty ridiculous, except for the fact that they are likely very supportive and that they make a statement by thumbing noses to those who would put us in uncomfortable shoes just to look “beautiful” or sexy.

Plae Sun Nexus in Teal $89.95

But you can still get the sneaker look with something more stylish. Colorful lace-up sneakers, like my yellow ones but with an even more sleek silhouette are offered by a company called Plae.  They have them in many colors at very reasonable prices. And for the truly Lazy Fashionista they have a different style with Velcro closures. They advertise as lightweight and collapsible and instead of a box they arrive in a re-usable packable, compression-sealed bag.

Pandere Barista $159

And then I found this company, Pandere. They sell only two shoes styles and their names say it all: Barista and Neo. This is the shoe for the egalitarian, utilitarian, hipster in you. And they look very comfortable. In their own way, they are pretty stylish, in that hip, utilitarian, egalitarian way. But they are not super cheap. Just expect to wear them for a long time and show your street cred in doing so.

Finally I also wanted to mention a few new-ish American designers who make dressy shoes as well as casual ones. These brands are very conscientious about comfort and construction so they are not “bargain” prices. But they are well made and will last.

Emme Cadeay Cella flat $165

Emme Cadeau Katherine heel $285

Marcella Gift is the designer of Emme Cadeau shoes. She was inspired by her mom, a schoolteacher, who stood on her achin’ feet for hours every day. So she designed these shoes with her mother in mind. They have three layers of foam insoles, good arch support, and are made in Portugal with the high quality leather and construction you can expect from that country. She carries four styles: ballet flats (a portion of those proceeds to go support Trickle Up, an organization helping women in developing countries), a sneaker in four colors and textiles, and pumps in either 3” or 1 ¾” heights all up to size 14. (Here’s the interview I did with Marcella recently.)

Joan Oloff Lucky in Black Suede $279

Joan Oloff Callie heel in snake $285

Joan Oloff sells shoes designed by a podiatrist. That sure sounds un-sexy, but the shoes are not. And the podiatrist who designed them is Joan herself! After years of seeing the damage done to her patient’s feet by poorly designed shoes she decided to go into what was actually the family business: shoes! The patent pending technology in her shoes offers three areas of comfort: terrific shock absorption, re-distribution of your weight off the typical pressure points of a shoe, and great support. But it doesn’t look like they carry extended widths, so pay attention to that. You can find these at Bloomingdale’s and shoes.com.

Margaux Classic Flat i Plum $195

Margaux heel in Coral $245

Margaux is one that does offer very extended sizes and widths. In fact, they boast a “made-to-measure” styling, which sounds like made to order, but I think that it refers to their fit questionnaire that tells you which sizes to buy in which style: flat, heel, loafer, bootie, sandal. They have 5 mm of “plush foam” padding. These are not super cheap either but you’re getting quality and style.

Coach Bella Sandal $225

Finally, because, believe it or not, I also have a “thing” for saucy shoes, I’ve been lusting after these from Coach. They seem to have gotten a new designer and gone from sturdy, predictable and boring to hot, hot, hot! God only knows if they are comfortable but I love them. (Ignore their “Lace-Up Ballerina Sneaker below… I’m sure it was a manufacturing error…or if not, should have been.)   Now if only I had somewhere to wear those…

Coach Lace Up Ballerina shoe

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