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June 30, 2015

Style type #5: Romantic – Sensual

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Illustration by Sue Tait Porcaro


Romantic. Alluring. Sensual. So many women want to be considered this way. But, as with all the style types, it’s a rare person whose features, body type and expression fit them neatly into a single type. That’s a good thing, frankly, because we are all unique. But it is particularly true when it comes to the Romantic style type.


The Romantic style type is pretty potent! What these women convey in their manner and looks is not manufactured. This is something they just live down to their bones. Like our archetype above, they would appear terribly unnatural in a stiff suit.


Let’s look at a few Romantics, starting with Julia Roberts. When you see luminous, liquid eyes and a fleshy Julia Robertsmouth you know you’re looking at a Romantic. Either one of those would indicate a fairly high percentage of this style type for an individual. But put them together and it’s unequivocal.


DIAHANN CARROLL SWI love this early picture of Diahann Carroll because it shows another characteristic of this type – parted lips. Romantics frequently pose with their lips slightly parted, as if they are about to say something or are slightly awestruck. The very fact that she showing a lot of skin is also something that this type feels completely comfortable with. It doesn’t appear salacious or awkward. Just, well, appropriate!CINEMA-SOPHIA LOREN


And then of course there’s Sophia. The dramatic angle of her eyes and her bone structure add a lot of Drama to what is quintessentially a Romantic type, demonstrated in her body, lips, and – as you would see in other photos – slightly flared nostrils. And there’s that “bedroom-y” quality to their eyes – a slightly sleepy or dreamy look.


So what defines the wardrobe of somebody with a high percentage of this archetype? Think about what Romance means. It’s sensuous. It’s flowing rather than rigid. There’s something larger than life about it. And that’s how we can determine the textures, fabrics and patterns that speak of romance.


Here are a couple of good examples of the Romantic type shoe. Almost anything in velvet reads as romantic. And almost anything thatblue velvet shoestaupe shoegladiator sandals binds or ties up the leg does the same. In the current fashion fads, gladiators sandals are a great example.


Here’s an example of what I meant about the patterns being larger than life.floral blue skirt Rather than being striking or dramatic they tend to be soft and floral. In fact, florals on a black background are a very romantic look.


Victoria BeckhamDraping and body hugging also read as romantic, as in this photo of Victoria Beckham. Note the off the shoulder style line as well.blue draping But the blue-gray cascading sweater and draped top on the right will give you an idea of how to do romantic without being black lace dressover-the-top.


And then  there’s the lace! Black lace, beingwhite lace dress somewhat mysterious but also revealing, is almost always Romantic. That’s why there’s so much lingerie made from it. But since this year “white is the new black” here’s an interesting twist that still has allure and a little mystery.


hourglass bodyFinally, I love this last image because it puts it all together. Sensuous mouth with parted lips, hourglass body, draped bodice. There’s no question about her style archetype. Alluring, sensuous, romantic.


In Chapter 3 of Shopping for the Real You you’ll find a very detailed quiz to help you determine how much of each of the style facets you have.


Let me know how much of the “Romantic” archetype you discover in yourself! You can write me here or on my Facebook page. Enjoy the Romance!Dark red shopping bag illustration


 


 


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Published on June 30, 2015 13:07

June 3, 2015

Style Type #4: Classy Classic

Illustration by Sue Tait Porcaro


Classic. The very name evokes a sense of harmony and balance. In the Personal Style Counselors (PSC) System, the Classical-Traditional style archetype sits at the balance point between the three yang (Dramatic, Natural, Exuberant) and the three yin (Romantic, Youthful, Ethereal) archetypes. You could think of it as the center post that holds the opposites together.


That certainly doesn’t mean that everyone has some of this archetype. But it does mean that everyone can wear something in this style. If you’d like to learn more about that read my post: Why Classical Style Has Something for Everyone.


Aside from cut, drape and silhouette, Classic works for everyone. That’s because most of us have occasions or environments that require some degree of modesty such as a workplace, a first meeting between strangers, or a rite of passage (wedding, funeral, graduation, etc.) Even if our personal style is more showy or extreme, most of us feel pretty elegant and pulled together when we add something from the Classic style archetype to our wardrobe. We might say that Classic is synonymous with classy.


So, how would we describe the elements of classic fashion? In a nutshell, they are Western culture’s simple, understated,Olivia Pope timeless silhouettes. They are the items that look as appropriate today as they did decades ago: a simple white shirt, a trench coat, or a well tailored suit. They have a luxe quality to them, as demonstrated in this photo of the (mostly) Classic Kerry Washington.


Grace Kelly - The Country Girl 1954And how would we describe someone who intrinsically has a lot of this style type? Grace Kelly was a perfect example. First of all, they tend to have very symmetrical faces. That means there isn’t a very noticeable difference between the shape and placement of their eyes or the shape of the two sides of their mouth. Regardless of ethnicity, they tend to choose to wear their hair in a fairly traditional Western style.


Anita Desai Indian authorThere just isn’t anything extreme about Classic types. In fact, subtlety could be their trademark. (You won’t find them wearing antler headgear or a lampshade at the office Christmas party.) Indian writer Anita Desai here, has a lot of the patrician quality of repose you see in Classic–Traditional archetypes.


So, now let’s look at a couple examples of classical style in fashion. Classical archetypeswhite shoetaupr bag can certainly wear sneakers (which have become a classic in their own right) but you’ll most likely see them in simple, minimally adorned pumps or flats and carrying handbags made of smooth, rather than sueded, fringed, or blinged-out leathers.


cardigan and perilsThe cashmere cardigan, pencil skirt, and pearls are a Classic “uniform” that never gets old.


Still, in the ever-changing world of fashion the whole concept of what is Classic and Traditional is undergoing something of a change in the industry. I doubt these new trends will permanently replace the things we have come to know as classics but here’s one example of how it’s getting reinterpreted – the eternally chic trench coat. When we think of the classic trench coat, this is what comes to mind.Burberry trench coats


And this is how it was recently interpreted by Burberry! Same designer, same basic construction and silhouette, but zowie! That ain’t no ordinary classic! (You definitely need to have a touch of drama and either Bold or Bright coloring to pull off one of these.) Yet in spite of the bling-y fabric, they still read as tailored and refined (and I’m guessing they’re pretty pricey.)Burberry metallic trenchcoats


I believe the trend toward a contemporary Classic minimalism, which started with Eileen Fisher, has now been fueled by the Millennial “minimalist” movement through such companies as Everlane, Ayr, Cuyana, and COS . They’re bringing a freshness to the basics, taking them slightly outside the box but never abandoning the fundamental principles of simplicity.blacktop white pants


So, when you think “Classical” you can stretch your thinking. It’s certainly not stodgy or predictable. Classics can be interesting, sexy, and a little mysterious, simply because a lot of other types of clothing these days leave nothing to the imagination. And, having some mystery makes any woman a little more attractive. Just ask French women of any age.


For the entire month of June I’ll be offering examples and more information about the Classic style archetype on my Facebook page. (If you’re not already following my Facebook page you can click on the “f” icon below.) It’s great fun and my readers seem to love it because they learn a lot. And it expands my own knowledge to post something new every day.


Speaking of readers, if you sign up for my blog by adding your email address in the sidebar here you’ll receive five free tips from my book Shopping for the Real You. And of course, I’d love it if you’d buy a copy of my book, either here or on Amazon. It will give you a greater depth of understanding about your own color harmonies and individual style facets. Pink dot shopping bag illustration


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Published on June 03, 2015 17:05

May 2, 2015

Style Type #3: Exuberant-Lively

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Illustration by Sue Tait Porcaro


Are you bored easily? Would it feel like death to wear the same thing every day? Is your shoe and accessory closet as big a deal for you as your basic wardrobe? Well then, you might just have a pretty measurable amount of the Exuberant – Lively style.


From my perspective, I think this is one of the more misunderstood and misinterpreted of the seven archetypes described  in my book, Shopping for the Real You. That’s because frequently people confuse Exuberant-Lively  with the Youthful–Playful style archetype.


Here’s the difference: Youthful types have a wide eyed innocence about them. Exuberant–Lively types will never be accused of being innocent. They have a bit of mischief about them. It’s the difference between being “sweet” and being a little “edgy.” Physically, they are often highly kinetic. They’d rather skip than walk, fidget than stand still, dance than watch a play. In fact, they’d rather be in the play –dancing – than be watching it!


hs black and tan shoesclassic shoes with b and w stitchingPicasso shoesSince I referenced their shoe addiction, let’s take a look at a few pairs that define what it means to have a high-spirited style. You’ll often see “points” (or pointed toes) repeated dots (perforations in the leather) or over-stitching. They almost tell a “story” of some kind, as if they had their own voice: “I’m going somewhere,” “do you get the joke?” “Look at me!” And still, even with the more extreme examples, the scale and the pattern of the shapes is not overwhelming.


These types love to play dress-up, but there’s a lot of thought that goes into that haphazard-looking cleverness.  One of themerce challenges  with this style is in making sure that their outfit stays on this side of “costume.” Although, you certainly will find a lot of performers, particularly dancers and comics, who fall into this category.  cute natural hair hs


And although this blog is primarily for women, I have to show you a photo of one of my all-time favorite male dancers because he was the epitome of this type:  Merce Cunningham. (The hair is often a giveaway – as it is in our darling girl here on the left.) First of all, I loved his name, which I always associated with “Winged Mercury.” There’s a quality of movement in these types, even when they are standing still.


Audrey HepburnNow with all style archetypes, but particularly this one, you have to consider the overall impression. Let’s look at the ever-adorable Audrey Hepburn. Yes, Audrey had some Romantic and Classical, but the thing that was compelling about her was her impishness. There was always something brewing in those eyes. And regardless of her attire, whether it was cigarette pants and ballet flats or a ball gown, you expected that at any moment she would be up for some fun. And we got caught up in that fun.


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Another element of this style is that these women can get away with wearing things that are slightly oversized. But here’s the deal: there’s a big difference between wearing something that is one size too large, and wearing something that is intentionallylavender coat with hat cut larger, like sporty jacket (on the left) or this gorgeous lilac coat. Yes, there is a lot of the clean, Classic clean line in both these images but they each still have something of a “wink, wink, nudge, nudge.” to them, with the flirty skirt and the hat and large, round sunglasses.


Then there are the hats! If ever there were a style that could rock a hat, it’s this one.  None of these are really necessary, but they’re all just so much fun and they each bring a kind of “coda” to the outfits.


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And, of course, the Exuberant-Lively style type is certainly not limited to any age. It’s all in the eyes, the expression, the motion.darling exuberant girl


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Motion, humor, taking life a little less seriously – this is what the Exuberant-Lively style type is all about.


So – how much of this style type do you have? Take the quiz in my book, Shopping for the Real You (available here and on Amazon) and find out!


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March 25, 2015

Style type #2: How Natural–Relaxed Are You?

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Illustration by Sue Tait Porcaro


Do you hate anything binding such as tight turtlenecks, ankle straps or constricting belts? Would you rather be in sneakers than stilettos? Does your “uniform” consist of loose sweaters and comfortable pants? If you say “yes” to more than one of these I’m guessing you have a good deal of the Natural – Relaxed style type.


In the Personal Style Counselors (PSC) system, Natural is the second most “yang” of the seven style archetypes. But it couldn’t be farther from the first one, Dramatic-Theatrical. In fact, almost everything about the Natural-Relaxed style is just about the opposite of how we would describe the Dramatic-Theatrical. Whereas Dramatic is all about intensity, Natural is all about being laid back. Where Dramatic controls the action (either directly or indirectly) Natural lets the river flow.


My own opinion is that as we age, most of us inch a little bit toward Natural. Maybe that’s because it’s the path of least resistance, as gravity does its thing. But don’t get the idea that Naturals are lazy. Most Natural-Relaxed types are pretty hard workers – or players. They tend to love the outdoors and sports in general. You’ll often find them playing tennis, working in their flower or vegetable gardens, or baking up a few dozen cookies for neighbors.


Fortunately, the design world has found a large demographic in this style – or it appeals to a broad range of women, across many styles. Natural-Relaxed types embrace natural fibers and easy draping, and those factors are a big black quilted sneakersdraw for many of us. So let’s look at a few examples of how this style is interpreted in fashion. b-w sneakers


We’ll start from the bottom up, as shoes are a big part of what identifies the Natural-Relaxed style archetype. Sneaks, slip-ons, huaraches, espadrilles – all these say Natural.  If it doesn’t require a lot of fussing with, is more about substance than style, comfort than statement, it’s likely a Natural-Relaxed shoe.


Many natural fibers, of course, read as Natural-Relaxed – with the possible exception of silk, unless it’s sueded silk. Suede, wool, cashmere, linen, hemp, bamboo (yes, a great new fabric) generally are less structured and more forgiving. Whereas leather says a bit of Drama, suede is usually Natural-Relaxed (and sometimes Romantic, as we drapey suede coatcan see both elements in this gorgeous coat…the drapiness is a bit Romantic, but it’s a pretty yummy suede and yumminess often says “Natural.”)


One of the hallmarks of this style archetype is the idea of un-constructed tailoring. That means you won’t find a lot of stiffness in a Natural’s garments. No shoulder pads, no stiff lapels, crisp pocket welts, orsoft subtle natural asian clean creases. The easy hang of the blouse and linen trousers on our girl to the right, plus the raffia woven tote, all say Natural. The only hint of something slightly Classic is the belt, but even it is styled almost as an afterthought.


And let’s not forget denim. Denim is the go-to fiber for almost every Natural-Relaxed type. Yes, it’s so Denim shirt, denim jeansubiquitous that it’s become a classic and therefore everyone is wearing it. But there is denim…and there is DENIM. Only someone with a lot of Natural-Relaxed could get away with this much of it at a time. But a Natural’s denim won’t be in a super skinny, bedazzled or embellished pair of jeans.


And finally, just so you don’t despair of ever looking very pulled-together if you have a lot of  the Natural-Relaxed archetype, here’s a lovely example of how it works in a less casual HTV_TBE_S9 006environment. This green wool pantsuit (I think it’s a pantsuit -maybe just a jacket and pants) is a Natural’s version of classic. The styling may be a bit more formal, but everything about it says easy-going. One more boon here: pockets! Naturals love pockets on anything.


So, how much of the Natural style type do you have? As for myself – I can definitely relate. I’ve got 30% of this style essence. Anything over 15% is considered a pretty strong element of one’s personal style. In chapter 3 of Shopping for the Real You I offer a detailed questionnaire to help you figure that out. You can also get a Skype style consultation with my mentor, John Kitchener to find your style essences.


Post script: That illustration at the beginning? It was actually designed as a “Don’t” in the chapter in my book about Proportion, Balance and Scale. Wouldn’t ya just know that those shapes and proportions would appear everywhere in fashion now! (Look aTeal shopping bag illustration sites like COS and Ayr if you don’t believe me.)


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February 25, 2015

What’s Your Style Type? #1 Dramatic-Theatrical

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Last year I posted a series about the four seasonal color archetypes. Now we’re going to dive into the fascinating topic of the seven individual style archetypes. As described in Shopping for the Real You it’s a rare person whose features, coloring, expression, etc. reflect one single style facet. So this analysis is primarily for the purpose of training your eye to see differences and patterns unique to each style. Once you understand the basics of these types (or if you have been fortunate to have had a personal style consultation with John Kitchener) your own facets gradually come more and more into focus. But always keep in mind my motto:


                                 Train your eye; trust your gut; don’t obsess.


Let’s start with the most yang of the archetypes: Dramatic-Theatrical.


These people are not wallflowers. But they’re also not overly in-your-face. There’s a quiet intensity about Dramatics. They know they command the room so they don’t need to go through a lot of histrionics to get attention. The pure archetypes are generally quite tall, have one or more exaggerated features, and very often have coloring in the winter Bold range. John calls the winter color types “Striking/Contrast,” and that also pretty much sets the tone for this style archetype as well. They have clear ideas and opinions. You’ll see a lot of them in entertainment, as business leaders (well, maybe not in Silicon Valley) or on fashion runways.


Let’s look at a couple of examples from my Dramatic/Theatrical Pinterest page.


This is model Catherine Servel wearing a Dries van Noten coat. The scale of the stripes and the contrast of the colors plus her strong bone structure all say “drama.” EvenFree Magazine Download. PDF Magazines Latest and Back Issues. Magazines for All the petals of the pink lily, which because of its color would ordinarily read “spring,” are exaggerated in shape.  Also, her coloring, with that very pale skin and very dark hair allows for greater contrast in what she wears. Yes there’s something very romantic about her expression, her mouth and the color of the flower. But pay attention to the scale of the pattern and the over-sized shape of the coat. That’s pure Drama.


golden necklace and cuffsThis image (to the left)  is particularly interesting. If you look at her hair texture and eyes there is something vulnerable and soft there – almost Angelic. But the breast plate/necklace and wrist cuffs read almost “superhero.” And notice the intensity of her expression. The scale of the neck piece and cuffs, plus the size of her tote require a person who has a lot of Drama. There aren’t many people who could pull off those accessories. She certainly does. With aplomb!


There’s not a lot of ambiguity in these Dramatic type women. They catch your attention and it’s hard to look away from them. But there’s nothing forced about what they are expressing. They are simply being who they are – fundamentally, intrinsically, Dramatic.


Here’s an interesting one that demonstrates how to look for Drama in someone with a one shoulder black topcombination of styles. The exaggerated silhouette of the one sleeved top coupled with her pose and expression all read as Drama. However, this young woman has a lot of the Romantic style type as witnessed by her round or heart-shaped face shape (pure Dramatics often have a very oval-shaped face) and mouth. Still, her eyes have more intensity than that typically found in a pure Romantic type. Also, even though there is some warmth to her coloring she can clearly wear high contrast which, as mentioned earlier, is very often associated with Dramatics.


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Finally, let’s look at something a little bit atypical. Our redhead here is not a Bold or Winter type in coloring, but she still checks many of the boxes of the Dramatic style type. Like our previous model, she also has got some Romantic going on, but what she’s communicating is less “come hither” than “You talking to me?” There’s a kind of haughtiness in that expression. (Interesting that both these girls have hands on their hips.)


Although the cut of her “T-shirt” is fairly classic, what is it made of? Black leather! Black leather immediately says drama. And check out the high heeled booties: Again, black leather, with obvious hardware (large-scale zippers.) When you think of drama, think of what the word “yang” signifies: dynamism, substance, clarity. These are common elements of Drama in a person’s style facets.


So – based on these descriptions, how much drama do you think you have in your personal style? (FYI: in case you can’t tell from my picture – I’ve got zero!)


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Published on February 25, 2015 12:13

January 22, 2015

What to wear at any age – 30, 40, 50, 60…Really??

http://www.dreamstime.com/royalty-free-stock-image-cheerful-casual-models-thumbs-up-white-background-image33279106You’ve probably seen those spreads in fashion magazines advising you how to wear this season’s new colors and fashions if you are 30, 40, 50, 60 and older. Uh huh…riiight.


This is one of my pet peeves: you just can’t lump everyone in a generational pool.


It’s not that there isn’t value in dressing appropriately for one’s age. I totally get that.  But to think that certain color families and silhouettes speak more to certain age demographics is to completely ignore differences in coloring and personal style.


The scale, cut, and color of an article of clothing should always be what determines if something works for you or not. In the photo  here you’ll see that jeans work for women of almost any age-(no comment on these specific jeans. however.)


So, in a nutshell, don’t let anyone tell you what you should or shouldn’t wear. But if you need some help figuring out what’s flattering for your body now, that’s another subject. In that case, here are a few common sense guidelines:


1)    The younger you are the more skin you can bare; more mature women benefit by creating a little mystery and covering up whatever “keeps them guessing.”


2)   If your legs look great well into your 50s, 60s or even 70s, why not  show them off? Just don’t go too short with your skirts. If you’re not thrilled with the texture of your skin, the shape of your knees, or the predominance of your veins wear colored stockings or tights.


3)     Ditto for arms – show off your toned arms, but if you’re not crazy about how they look, wear longer sleeves.


4)    Shoes: everyone’s source of joy – or suffering. The heel height of your shoes should be determined ONLY by the following: are they comfortable, can you walk safely in them without toppling, and do they enhance your overall look? That pretty much covers all the bases from sneakers to stilettos.


So, when you see something in a magazine that calls out to you, run it past these guidelines, and then ask yourself if it will go with anything else that’s already in your closet. If it does, that’s an indication that it suits your coloring and personal style. If it doesn’t, forget it. You’re likely just being lured by marketing hype.


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Published on January 22, 2015 16:40

January 6, 2015

Why We Shop… And Why It’s Good for Us

When the Dalai Lama was first installed as the spiritual leader of Tibet he admitted that one of his very first thoughts was “I wonder how I’m going to look in those robes?” I loved his candor and honesty. It’s a rare person whoBaby shopping doesn’t care how they look.


If we believe that the entire state of the world is summarized in the tragedies and imponderable events on the nightly news, we might conclude that any activity having to do with commerce –particularly something like shopping for clothes – is meaningless and superficial.


I emphatically disagree!


How we dress, how we present ourselves when we step out the door, or even when we just stay hunkered down in our own abode, says a lot about how we feel about ourselves. It’s one of the most direct reflections of how much we are willing to engage in life.


Life is about growth, evolution, and progress. And the fashion world, for all its quirks and commercial eccentricities, is – at its best – a mirror of that evolution. Buying something new and maybe a little bit – dare we say it “fashionable” – keeps us in the path of life. When we find a new article of clothing that brings us joy or that makes us feel authentic and beautiful we are making a statement: “I’m alive, I deserve to be seen, and look what beauty I can contribute to the world.”


That said, I’m not advocating throwing out last year’s wardrobe. I’m simply giving permission to anyone who needs it to fully enjoy one of the more delightful pleasures in life. My goal for you the comPink dot shopping bag illustrationing year is that every clothing purchase you make is purposeful and makes you feel attractive and alive every time you wear it – whether it’s something off the rack at Neiman Marcus or a real treasure found at the Goodwill.


Here’s to a joyful and fashionable 2015!


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Published on January 06, 2015 11:47

November 26, 2014

Shopping for Quality… At a Bargain

I love the convenience of shopping onlineIn Shopping for the Real You I strongly advocate buying the best quality clothing you can afford. That’s because, generally, when you pay a little extra you’re going to get a better quality fabric, cut, or construction. But everybody – and I mean everybody – loves a bargain. If you know how to play it right you can usually get that higher quality item for a better price. Here are some keys to buying quality at a bargain.


1)  First of all, if you shop frequently at a particular retailer and for a specific designer, get to know a salesperson in that department. She – or he – will alert you when your favorite designer items are coming on sale.


2) Some high end department stores (Saks, Neiman’s, Barney’s and Nordstrom… Bergdorf’s just won’t go there) each have their own discount sites: Barney’s WarehouseHautelook: (Online version of Nordstrom’s Rack); Last call: (Neiman’s online outlet); and Saksoff5th.


2) If you order from an online retail store you are pretty much guaranteed to be their new best friend. Your inbox will be flooded daily with updates on their latest sales. And they all have a “sale” page on their website. Also, There are online outlets for specific labels, e.g., Coach, Tommy Hilfiger, J. Crew. When you do a search on the name of your favorite retailer just add “outlet.” You’ll likely get a listing of their bricks and mortar outlet stores but if they have an online one, that version will show up too.


3) If you know exactly the designer and item that you want The Find scans more than 500,000 retailers, finds it, and lists all available coupon codes applicable. Once you do find it, an app called Shoptagr keeps tabs of that item and lets you know when it goes on sale.


4) Finally, there are several outlet “collection” websites that partner with design houses or retailers who want to unload overstock merchandise. But heads up: just as with bricks and mortar outlets, many of these items are not regular merchandise on sale but cheaper, schlock-y stuff manufactured just for these websites. But if you have the time – and the patience – to sort through the weeds you can find some real gems.


Here’s my somewhat long “short list” of several of these sites.


6pm.com: Zappo’s answer to department store outlets. Some good deals here, including an epic amount of jeans.


Bluefly: carries items from over 40 higher-end (and some mid-level) designers but unless you want a pre-owned handbag, you won’t find any Chanel…sigh (anyone out there know of a Chanel outlet?)


Century 21: (Not the realtor…) From pricier (but limited number) designer things to super cheap.


Gilt: The granddaddy of the genre: from very high end to affordable.


Ideel: Limited time sales of designer (and mid-level overstock) items.


Lyst: Mostly designer items at full price but has a sale page that re-directs you to other sites for high-end sale items.


My Habit: Amazon’s discount warehouse limited time sales. Some things they’re practically giving away, (and you can tell why) and some designer.


Ruelala: High quality name brands and designer items, limited amounts.


The Outnet: (My personal downfall) heavily discounted designer and in-house brand. This is net-a-porter’s discount wing.


Yoox: As many full-price as discounted (40-70%) designer items. I love that they show available sizes right on the thumbnail images.


And since we’re talking about bargains, I’m offering a 20% discount on my book, Shopping for the Real You, from now through December 10 when you order from my website. Enter coupon code: Bargain at checkout. (Because we ship book rate we have to receive your order by the 10th.) Such a deal! Also, be sure to subscribe to my blog and you’ll be notified when my new ebook, “Good Jeans” is available!Blue shopping bag illustration


 


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November 7, 2014

Color Versus Style: Part 2

blue-checkered-coat-and-dramatic-style-black-and-whiteIn my last post I described how designers create similar colors and style types of clothing (in terms of fabric weight and color palette) for each season year after year.


So, paying attention to your specific coloring and style type(s) becomes very important when your own seasonal color palette and style type is out of synch with the current season’s predominant colors and style.


Now we’re going to talk about how catalogs, websites, and magazines can add to the challenge – and your confusion.


From economic and practical necessity, fashion editors – particularly those who edit catalogs –choose one or two models to show an entire season’s line. For example, they will dress a bold and striking colored brunettecffad43f420cd370e14a55feb7cdbfce dramatic woman in dramatic dress in everything from contrasting color block to soft and subtle pastels. So, if you happen to be primarily a bold “winter” color type you have to be discerning and determining which pieces will work for you.


This is also common on the runways during fashion week. Designers will work with a particular color palette whether or not it suits the coloring of all the models.


0f5d4adee0c55adbed9d335e512d128f orange and blue sweater and dark rootsAlso, check out any number of arrivestes attending fashion week and you’ll see some of the most egregious examples of this. Yes, they frequently put together the pieces together rather artistically, but would you actually wear it?


Another visual disconnect involves movie stars and models who are featured in magazines. (There are some magazines that do this better than others, however – and Bazaar comes to mind.) You’ll see a fashion blogger, model, or movie/TV star wearing a creative and hip combination of pieces that have nothing to do with her intrinsic coloring.1c0e35aae0fdaae207bd252c6d514177 gorgeous subtle blended and warm rich


This is so much the case that when you see something really pleasing and harmonious it jumps off the page and makes you feel calm in your heart rather than confused and edgy.


So, can you wear one of those edgier, artistic outfits that stand on their own and don’t necessarily complement your own coloring? Of course! Absolutely. But just what are you projecting? What are you communicating? Is that really what you want to say? Are you happy PFW-Street-Style-Day-Nine and shocking pinkwearing costume art? And does it express the real you?


Always ask yourself those questions before plunking down your credit card. Here’s to the real you!


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October 16, 2014

Color vs. Style: Part 1

blue-checkered-coat-and-dramatic-style-black-and-whiteBeing a smart shopper means knowing the difference between color and style. Sure, they sound like different things. But that distinction often gets muddied. In this post we’re going to explore why this is by looking at the conventional  relationships between certain seasonal color palettes and certain style archetypes.


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Winter: Let’s start with winter Bold colors. You’ll often find these in Dramatic/Theatrical cuts and patterns. And the reality is that a lot of Dramatic style types often can, in fact, wear bold colors. Since the nature of winter is that of intensity and drama the patterns and designs expressed in the dead of winter frequently reflect that drama: color blocking, extreme shapes, exaggerated patterns.


Spring:  As winter transitions to spring, the Bright spring palette is found  in the cuts, styles and patterns typical of Youthful/Playful style.  Even the word “spring” suggests a kind of innocence and awakening. Those qualities play well with typical spring Spring dressed girlpatterns and styles: smaller florals, checkered fabrics, bright, playful designs, and more feminine or round shapes rather than the extreme lines and cuts that typically are seen in the striking colors of winter.


Summer: Angelic/Ethereal types might notice that a lot of things in their closet seem to fall into the Soft/Subtle Summer color palette. There’s an automatic relationship we form between thoseAngelic pink dress gentle, often grayed colors and the breezy, gauzy fabrics that we can only wear in the summer. These are the colors we also associate with the sort of liquid, diaphanous quality we see in people with a lot of the Angelic style type. Also, since many weddings take place in the summer, we make a connection between lighter colors and wedding attire – both for the guests as well as the bride. (And, by the way, you’ll see a lot of mother-of-the-bride dresses in this grayed palette.)


Fall: And then when autumn rolls around we want to start wearing more layers. Except in a few anomalous years, you’re most likely to find those less popular autumn colored garments primarily in the autumn – cozy sweaters, pants and jackets. You’ll also start seeing more of the Natural/RelaxedNatural rich colored outfit textures such as ribbed and cabled knits, corduroy pants and tops, suede in various garments and the heavier weaves of cashmere. (Those feather weight cashmere cardigans are a godsend in air conditioned offices, but you need heavier weights in the winter.) There’s an obvious link between autumn colors and heavier fabrics and textures.


So what you do if – like most of us – your color palette and style types cross multiple seasons and archetypes? If, for example, you’re primarily a  Natural/Relaxed style type but your coloring is very much in the spring Bright palette, rather than autumn? Or if you’re a Youthful/Playful style type but your coloring is clearly that of the winter palette? Or if you have a lot of the three other style types not mentioned here because they cross multiple seasons: Classic, Exuberant, or Romantic?


My advice is this: look for your ideal colors first. Every season you will find something that will work. Maybe it’s just an accessory that you wear with your neutrals. Maybe it’s a sweater or a blouse. Even if you have a only small amount of the current seasonal colors in your personal palette, wear that small amount. Find those one or two great things that highlight your coloring and then wear them to death with your basics for that season.


My bookShopping for the Real Youoffers fundamental guidelines to determine the colors and styles that can work best for you. (A heads up: my mentor John Kitchener is currently offering a discount for individual color and style analysis.)Dark red shopping bag illustration


In the next post I’ll talk about the second element in color versus style confusion: Models, celebrities and magazines.


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