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December 16, 2024
Best of Write with Fey 2024
BEST OF WRITE WITH FEY 2024
Works-in-Progress:
Take a Peek into My Work-in-Progress: Find Ivy
Take a Peek into My Enemies-with-Benefits Story
Writer's Life:
My Writing and Publishing Roadmap
Learning to Read was a Struggle
Blogging:
My Blog's Top 13 Posts of All Time
Movie Love:
Movie Lists Fun (Childhood Favorites, Comfort Movies, All-Time Favs)
How Did the Movie Pitch Black Inspire me?
How Did the Movie UltraViolet Inspire Me?
How Did the Movie Matrix: Reloaded Inspire Me?
How Did the Movie Van Helsing Inspire Me?
How Did the Movie Gothika Inspire Me?
Author Life:
Desperate Is as Desperate Does
The "Gift" That Keeps on Giving
It's Challenging, Don’t You Think?
Random:
The Disaster Curse is now FREE FOREVER!
Space is Hard / Writers on the Moon
Grief Work & Healing Journey:
A - ASMR
B - Beach
C - Church
D - Donating
E - Epistle (Letter from Heaven)
F - Facebook Posts
G - Grief Share
H - Haiku Poetry
I - Imari
J - Job (New Job)
K - Kitchen Time
L - Ladybug Rocks #LadyBugRocksFL
M - Miracle Moments
N - Nature
O - Our Story (Keepsake Journal)
T - Tauren Wells "Joy in the Morning"
U - Use + YOU
W - Wellness Journal
Y - Yahtzee
Z - Zoo Trip
I have two post ideas to share in January, but as far as any other blogging plans for 2025...I don't really have any. I won't even be participating in the April Blogging from A to Z Challenge. It seems that I do it two years in a row and then don't participate for a few years, so I guess I'm on par.
For 2024, I didn't have a plan come January, but I ended up getting ideas for posts, as you can see with the lists above.
For 2025, my 13th year of blogging, I don't know what I'll be doing here.
I still have one feature idea that I've been mulling over for a couple of years now. This feature wouldn't be for writers/authors. They'd be more for girls/women. It'd be memoir style like Caitlin Moran’s How to be a Woman. So that means there will be stories about my childhood and growing up as the youngest sister. I mean, I have an essay about shaving, so yeah. HAHA. There's also stories about living without electricity and without a bed, etc. I'm still not sure if I'll do this, but I don't know what else I'll do with this content. Once, I thought I'd publish a memoir, but I don't want to do that anymore. My blog is the only other place I can think of sharing these essays. I'll continued to mull it over.
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HAPPY HOLIDAYS!
December 9, 2024
Listen. I'm Saying It Again.
I'm sharing a few posts for Ghost of Death and Witch of Death, the final stories I promoted this year in an effort to promote my published work that was an epic failure.
Yup, it's the broken record again.
How pathetic this made me feel makes me not want to promote my work on social media ever again. Especially when trying to get interest in works-in-progress is also an epic failure. It's a huge letdown how these platforms are run and how the algorithms ruin everything. I know so many authors/writers who no longer want anything to do with Instagram because of how their posts get buried or are never shown to our followers.
Anyway, the graphics below are clickable if you want to see the captions on Instagram.
I hope you enjoy!Let me know your favorite quote/graphic in the comments. 😊
WITCH OF DEATH
GHOST OF DEATH
December 1, 2024
It's Challenging, Don’t You Think?
This year, I participated in a lot of monthly Instagram challenges with daily prompts. It was a tactic I was trying to see if it'd help my engagement on Instagram. I didn't post every day in these challenges, although I certainly tried in the beginning until...
I noticed that my engagement wasn't much different, even when I did two challenges in the month of August (with some posts tying together both challenges). At that point, I started to just do the prompts I thought looked like fun, especially if they were about our characters or our stories.
I'm going to save those posts about my characters and works-in-progress for another time, maybe when I'm closer to publishing those stories *insert hysterical laughter here*, but here are some of the posts that I did that I really liked.
They are all hyperlinked if you'd like to read the captions on Instagram. 😊
November 18, 2024
The "Gift" That Keeps on Giving
Last month, I shared a few of my favorite posts for Hurricane Crimes, Seismic Crimes, and Tsunami Crimes from my failed promo efforts in this post: Desperate Is as Desperate Does.
The annoyance I have for my failed promo efforts from this year is the "gift" that keeps on giving.
Now, I am sharing a few posts for Flaming Crimes, Frozen Crimes, and A Fighting Chance. They are clickable if you want to see the captions on Instagram.
I hope you enjoy!Let me know your favorite quote/graphic in the comments. 😊
FLAMING CRIMES
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FROZEN CRIMES
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A FIGHTING CHANCE
November 4, 2024
Desperate Is as Desperate Does
In a previous post, This Promo Thing Is Crap, I talked about my failed promo attempts on social media for all of my published stories and how Instagram's algorithms are horrible and make everything worse.
That's why I've decided to share a few of my favorite posts for Hurricane Crimes, Seismic Crimes, and Tsunami Crimes right here in this post. They are clickable if you want to see the captions on Instagram.
I hope you enjoy!
Let me know your favorite quote/graphic in the comments. 😊
HURRICANE CRIMES
SEISMIC CRIMES
TSUNAMI CRIMES
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October 13, 2024
How Did the Movie Gothika Inspire Me?
In my Thursday 13 blog post titled Movie Lists Fun (Childhood Favorites, Comfort Movies, All-Time Favs), I shared lists of movies, including my all-time favorite movies. Next to several of those movie titles there had been an asterisk, indicating that those films had inspired/influenced me as a writer.
The Movies:
The FINAL movie spotlight is for...
Gothika
How did it inspire me?
Every single moment Miranda (Halle Berry) is locked up in the psychiatric hospital.
I watched this movie so many times while writing Part Two in Book 2 of my Secret Book Baby Series, which takes place in a psychiatric hospital for women and girls. The writing is darker because of the setting and what happens. The dark, grim, spooky mood of Gothika helped to inspire me.
In one scene of Gothika, Halle's character has a possessed moment. Well, my character experiences something kind of similar...but not. LOL
I'm not sure what else to say about this movie except that I simply love it.
September 30, 2024
This Promo Thing Is Crap
The Plan:
Last year, I had the idea to promote one of my published stories each month this year while offering the eBook on sale for 99 cents. I'd create pretty and cute graphics with some of the best quotes from my stories to post on Instagram and Facebook. I'd even planned to create a couple of reels, too.
(I love it when authors I follow do this. There's been many cases when I've added a book to my TBR list or bought it because I continued to see their posts and enjoy the teasers they shared. My hope was to generate the same outcome.)
The Plan Ruined:
Well, my plan immediately unraveled when my publisher said that they no longer mark eBooks on sale for 99 cents UNLESS the author is doing a big advertising push and paying for advertisement during the sale.
Look, I'm single. I live alone. I'm on a budget. I cannot afford to pay for advertising.
Hearing that was such a HUGE disappointment.
I'd already created a lot of graphics for my stories, so I thought I'd still go ahead with my plan, minus the sale.
The Outcome (so far):
In January, I started with 30 Seconds, my romantic-suspense novella. The first few days, the engagement was decent. Then it dropped.
Lesson Learned: DO NOT do a month-long spotlight. LOL! I had too many quotes that I liked that I'd wanted to share, but that was my mistake. I should've parred it down to two weeks of content, four days per week.
February, I moved on to 30 Seconds Before, the prequel to 30 Seconds that can be read as a standalone. I thought the engagement would be decent, again, like how it started out with 30 Seconds, but it was well below par.
March through September I spotlighted a story a month for the Disaster Crimes series. And that was just...brutal. *sigh*
Lesson Learned: Promoting an older published and completed series is HARD, especially if you're promoting each book separately. I honestly have no clue how to promote my series now.
Instagram's Sucky Algorithms:
Now, I know this problem is not just with me, and it's how Instagram's horrible algorithms bury our content and never show us posts from accounts we follow. Ever.
My posts now get a handful of likes. (Don't get me wrong. I am grateful for all of my followers, although I'd prefer it if IG let them SEE my posts, and I am grateful for the likes I do get.)
Sometimes, though, I get just two or three likes no matter what I try.
And I've tried it all: more hashtags, less hashtags, different hashtags, same hashtags, trying to hit high engagement days/times, Canva graphics, photographs, censoring words that romance authors use a lot so that I don't get put on some naughty list, but nothing makes a difference.
Instagram just hates me.
It is incredibly discouraging, and I know I'm not alone in this.
Some Content for Fun:
Because my posts weren't seen by many, I thought I'd share a few of my favorites for 30 Seconds and 30 Seconds Before in this post. They are hyperlinked if you'd like to visit the post on IG.
30 SECONDS:
30 SECONDS BEFORE:
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September 15, 2024
How Did the Movie Van Helsing Inspire Me?
In my Thursday 13 blog post titled Movie Lists Fun (Childhood Favorites, Comfort Movies, All-Time Favs), I shared lists of movies, including my all-time favorite movies. Next to several of those movie titles there had been an asterisk, indicating that those films had inspired/influenced me as a writer.
The Movies:
Gothika
Once a month, I am going to highlight one of those movies and reveal how it inspired/influenced me.
This month's movie is...
Van Helsing
How did it inspire me?
Dracula and his ball.
In Book 2 of my Secret Book Baby Series, vampires make an appearance. One of them is a vampire king. The Dracula in Van Helsing influenced this character. I do not picture this Dracula as my character aside from the hair and pale skin, nor does my vampire king have an accent, but I created my character during the time when I was especially obsessed with this movie.
And the ball...my vampires have a ball...and my FMC is forced to dance with the king. So, yeah, see the similarities with that? It unfolds all very different, and it's not a masquerade ball, but the influence is plain, and I'm not hiding that.
Van Helsing, for being a low budget film, is fabulous. It doesn't get nearly as much love as it should.
September 2, 2024
I suck. I'm Sorry.
Dear Blog Visitor,
I haven't visited many of your blogs in a very long time.
That is why I suck and why I am sorry.
Since I started my full-time job last June, I've found it harder and harder to visit other blogs.
I work, I go home, I try to write as much as I can as long as I have the energy and motivation, I go to bed, and repeat. Come the weekend, I'm trying to recuperate from the work week and write, write, write. I haven't even had time to read a graphic novel. *sigh*
(This work/life routine may be the same with you, and you still may be able to visit blogs and comment on them, but I urge you to remember that we all have different capacities for things. I am a spoonie and suffer from a lot of chronic pain, more than I did at the start of last year, so that takes it out of me, too.)
At work, there's been times when I could create blog posts (like now), but for some reason, I'm not able to log in to comment on other people's blogs or even to reply back to comments on my own posts, which is less than ideal. I have to do that on my iPad, which is also less than ideal.
I forget all the time to use one of my own devices to reply back to comments on my own posts, which is sad.
So, I want to say to those of you who visit my blog but maybe don't comment, THANK YOU! I may not see a visible sign that you're here, but I SEE YOU, and I appreciate your visit.
To those of you who visit and leave a comment (there's a few of you who I consider my faithful commenters), I THANK YOU for continuing to visit my blog and to grace me with your thoughts when I haven't done the same for you in a long time.
I am going to do my best to visit more of your blogs, and I really mean that.
For now, THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! And I am sorry for not reciprocating as much as I should've. I’ll get better at it. I promise.
Take care,
Chrys Fey
August 18, 2024
How Did the Movie Matrix: Reloaded Inspire Me?
In my Thursday 13 blog post titled Movie Lists Fun (Childhood Favorites, Comfort Movies, All-Time Favs), I shared lists of movies, including my all-time favorite movies. Next to several of those movie titles there had been an asterisk, indicating that those films had inspired/influenced me as a writer.
The Movies:
Van Helsing
Gothika
Once a month, I am going to highlight one of those movies and reveal how it inspired/influenced me.
This month's movie is...
Matrix: Reloaded
How did it inspire me?
1) When Neo says, "Trinity, I know you can hear me. I'm not letting go. I can't. I love you too damn much."
2) Trinity's pose when she lands after jumping off her motorcycle AND her scorpion kick.
3) The Title
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